if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
2006-10-26 01:47:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm very surprised that your still with this girl seeing that she'sdoing all of this. She's clearly still in-love with her ex for sure, and I do think that you were a rebound for her. If she was truly over him she would not be calling him, and emailing him all the time. She's totally disrespecting you. I think the best thing for you to do is to leave her and move on elsewhere. She's not happy where she is, and it's not fair for her to be stringing you along when her feelings are not all the way there. You deserve a lot more respect and love. If she was happy with you she wouldn't be doing these things. Even if this guy never sees her again or talks to her, it's still wrong of her, and no matter what her heart is still with him. Move on sweetie, you will be glad you did because your setting yourself up for heartbreak somewhere down the road.
2006-10-26 01:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see you are truly confused, having asked the same question several times.
I have to say to say trust is an important component in a relationship. If you are really troubled, ask your gf casually whether she still keep in contact with her ex. Tell her you wouldn't mind them being friends. Doing this might open her heart and make her tell you about her trying to contact her ex. If she didn't say, don't probe. She might feel that telling you adds burden to you.
I can see that you really like her a lot. If you want this relationship to work out, DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS. Trust her first. Unless you have solid evidence that she wants her ex back, you cannot accuse her like this. And the email isn't a solid evidence. Sounds more like she hopes to be forgiven by her ex for her actions. She has chosen you, and I'm sure she has throughly think it over and over, before deciding to leave her ex for you.
2006-10-26 15:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Schizophrenic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is some unsure stuff maybe u should ask her hese questions it sounds like shes tring to have both of u and usually u can tell when a girl is torn up on the inside.
2006-10-26 08:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by it's HG !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't want her ex back if she broke up with him to be with another guy. She just wants her cake and eat it too.
2006-10-26 08:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by rnellwoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run and see if she chases you
2006-10-26 09:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by shawn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋