2006-10-26 01:34:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally believe that it is wrong to have sex before. People need to wait till marriage before having sex. I know so many say you need to try it before you get into a relationship. But sex is not everything about a relationship. You want to get to know that person totally, how will they treat you, would they be there for you for whatever reason. A relationship should be built on love first and not sex first. So many people go for the sex first and then the love and that is wrong and the relationship stands a good chance of not working. There are just many things that people don't consider before having sex. I did not wait till I was married before having sex and none of my former relationships did not work out. When I met my now wife, we did not have sex until after we fell in love and were married. And it is the best sex in the world.
2006-10-26 01:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its better to wait, because sex is not a game, it comes with it lots of emotional attachment. When both of u r married, it becomes part and parcel of ur love life and u know ur partner will not leave u after u had sex wif him/her.If u hav sex before marriage, then the element of surprise is not there, cos u hav seen it all and done it all, and u might wondered and think another person is better cos u r curious ( element of surprise is there ) which y many relationship dun last after sex before marriage.
Patience is a virtue.
2006-10-26 08:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by MountT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly my luv, sex be4 marriage is not gud . it will creates smoke in ur relationship. wheneva u r not around ur boyfriend , he will think u r in bed with someone . Rather wait for the ry8 tym. Luv , today u sleep with Y n then u break up n 2mrow with G . It doesn't sounds nice hey.. My friend i care for u , neva sleep with n-one before u get married . IT'S A RECIPE FOR DISASTER MY LUV. gud luck and keep well
2006-10-26 09:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. This sex before marriage is a bunch of crap.
2006-10-26 08:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Captin Trips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have sex before marriage because if not then you might end up with someone who isn't good at sex or isn't well endowed like myself. You should always test something before you purchase it.
2006-10-26 08:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by rnellwoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Right"... I dunno, what does "right" mean anyway? I'm fine with it. In fact I enjoy my sex life very much. To me it's one of the things that a partner and I need to be compatable on. If we're not, then why waste the time and heartache? You wouldn't get married without knowing how he looked, what he did, his views, opinions. Finding out if you work together in bed on your wedding night is, to me, a recipe for diasaster. Much akin to finding out if he's a wife beater or not, or if you find him attractive or not, or if he's a racist or not.
2006-10-26 08:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I dont' think it's wrong. But the Bible states you should wait, so that makes me feel like a sinner, but it doesn't make you bad person. Just don't sleep with someone that you don't care about.....that's a sin.
2006-10-26 08:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the person, its your personal choice, some say yes some say no..If I could do it all over again...I would wait...
2006-10-26 08:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Laea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like everything it all comes down to personal choice.There's no right or wrong.
2006-10-26 08:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if ur in love and it fells rite at the time then go rite ahead
2006-10-26 08:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋