I have been falling outa love with my boyfriend. i have cried over something every day for 8 months and i never normally cry at all. i told him that my heart keeps breaking every 5 minutes and he asked me if i wanted a bit of a break. i was supposed to meet his family and i couldn't make it, and we were away from each other for months, he ended up seeing another girl for a month and she thought she was pregnant. he wants me to move to another country to live with him, says everything will be alright then, we can build our lives together and grow old together. but he makes me feel bad all the time. i still care for it to hurt.
The other guy! nothing has happened but i want it to. he has had feelings for me, and i never saw him that way. was crazy about my bf. but now he is on my mind all the time. i think he's sexy and an amazing man. he takes care of me even though we're not together. makes me feel special and funny and all good things.
2006-10-26 01:29:14 · 15 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a hormone imbalance if you're crying every day...that is definitely abnormal....see a physician!
2006-10-26 01:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be suspicious of packing up and moving to another country for some guy. Especially when you are "falling out of love with him" , "you're heart keeps breaking", and he's having sex with another girl.
C'mon, why would you even consider a guy like that.
As for the other guy, he's sexy, and amazing, takes care of you , and other good things.
The whole situation sounds like a no-brainer to me.
2006-10-26 08:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by lefty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say that you let your current boyfriend go be with someone else because you deserve better and like you said the other guy is amazing..what do you have to loose except for a guy that makes you cry all the time. Good luck
2006-10-26 08:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont move to another country! As things are the chances are that you could end up trapped or destitute. Hes a rat if he cheats on you. Maybe end the relationship?
Give the relationship with the second guy a chance, it could be the start of a beautiful friendship.
2006-10-26 08:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jesus christ u have the same onlien name as my girlfriend that im in love with and me and her been argueing for a while almost everyday omg this is so weird ok well look if he got sumone else pregnant he dosent love u as much as u think it's hard to let go of a relationship that been goin on for so long
but if he hurt u this bad now wat makes u think he wont hurt u as bad again gettin sumone pregnant is really wrong he thinks he loves u but his actions choose other wise this other dude seems to love u alot and care about u so try it wit him after awhile juss dont go out wit him now take a break to be alone
2006-10-26 08:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving away together dont solve nothing, i think you should split with your b/f and get with this new guy.
read your first paragraph, its all doom and gloom, now read your second paragraph!!
see the difference!? its all happy!!!
try a relationship with the other guy hon he seems like a nice person :o)
2006-10-26 08:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the old bf if he makes you feel bad and enjoy the new bf
2006-10-26 08:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by jewels_flamered 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you can TRUST, the one who is really INTERESTED in you, the one who is ATTRACTED to you, the one who CARES about you, and the one who will accept the truth of who you are.....
2006-10-26 08:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go with the other guy forget ur boyfriend
2006-10-26 08:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by sexychick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the other guy !! lol he seems way better and he's there for you !! Why want someone who isn't !
2006-10-26 08:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by La parisienne ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋