Ok! Jesse and I broke up about three months ago. We were battling more than usual and she came to the conclusion that the romance was gone. So we took a break. She wanted to feel those feelings again so, desperate, she agreed to go out with this Arron kid. He turned out to be verbally abusive and now they are through.
Well this pass wednsday has me thinking pessemisticly, because I got close to her with hopes for a kiss and she backed off! Were both single and we were making out long before we got together. I should have just kissed her anyway. I hope she hasn't gotten used to being without me.
She says she needs a break from relationships but I feel more like shes not interested in me anymore. Man, if you would have seen us dating you would wonder how we split too?! In fact most of the kids in the church are dissapointed in that, haha. Its a big ego crusher. With being told both "I love you" and "I dont want to deal with that right now" in the same week, Im trying to understand
2006-10-26 00:50:29 · 14 answers · asked by winterberry_s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on dude...Taking a break means the relationship is over...
2006-10-26 01:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is trying to find that "spark" that happens the first time you kiss someone and when a romance is new. You and she have "baggage" from your relationship that is getting in the way of reigniting that spark. Don't smother her m but if you still care , try
romancing her back using little notes , compliments on her hair or clothes, small little presents (a single flower or candy). Tell her you are there if she needs someone to talk to . Be a good friend and see what happens but don't get your hopes to high there will be many more relationships down the road of life - Good luck
2006-10-26 07:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is trying to let you know that her expectations of the relationship have not been met. And that as long as things remain the same she will not resume your relations. I hate to be the bearer of bad tidings, but I think you need to get on with your life and let her do the same. If you spend all your time trying to figure her out, (and that will never happen) then your going to spend a lot of time alone.
2006-10-26 07:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to understand women is a suicidal mission. Smart guys use their intuition, but never try to understand women. Just take it easy for a while, don't give her any signs, of any kind, and see how she will react. You don't say how old are you, so this might be just one of the many women who will puzzle your mind till you get the right one.
Take care.
2006-10-26 07:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to understand women. Just follow her lead. If she wants to kiss, then kiss. If she backs off, then you back off. Don't be pushy and get your ego out of it. It's not about your ego. Be patient and if it for the two of you to be together then it will happen.
2006-10-26 07:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god!! i feel the same way. i feel man these days have got a "homing" machine. i broke off with 2 girls this year. no matter what,i keep going abck to them. the heartless person here is always the girl. i hope they are as forgiving as me. but no. sad to say. sad to say. i willing to give in a lot, still they are heartless to move on. anyway, anyway. life moves on without you or me, right. all the best!!!
2006-10-26 07:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by loveholic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are more fish out at sea and you are sure to find one that isn't so confused and sticks with her feelings for you. Don't do the "I'm waiting for you to come back" thing.
2006-10-26 07:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even Einstein could understand how a woman's brain operate, so who are u to try? lol
2006-10-26 07:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by spatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her be....this may be her way of breaking it off without hurting your feelings....stay away from her and make her make the first move.....
2006-10-26 07:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
womesn heart is deeper then the sea .. no one ever could know whats there so dont even thin of digging it ...
Regards
Sameer
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-10-26 07:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋