i dont know why but i always suspect my woman every move though my heart tells me she is trustworthy but i cant just stop suspecting her to be having another affair. why do i always think so.
2006-10-26 00:28:29 · 13 answers · asked by IDRIS S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you had bad experiences before and this is changing everything.Even the girlfriend of yours is trustworthy,you can't just let yourself relax because you don't want to get hurt again.I went through that.I still am.I am with a man whom I can trust,finally trust...But I can't...I know it's wrong and ıt's driving him crazy,but ıt's just not happening.He's trying to do everything for me to trust him.I know it will take time but I am going to have to trust him.You should too.İf she helps you the way he does to me,I think you would trust again...İt's a wonderful feeling :-) I think!
2006-10-26 00:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first obvious answer would be past behavior; hers and yours. Has she ever given you any reason to think she's fooling around with someone else by her actions of words? Or, is it something you've done yourself in the past that you feel guilty about and so are projecting those guilty feelings onto her? Look further back, did mom cheat on dad, old girlfriend cheat on you, one of your friend's girls cheat on him and you found out?
You need to figure this out before your suspicions and lack of trust ruin this relationship for you both. Have you tried talking about it to her in a non-accusatory conversation? She might be able to help you figure out where this comes from if you approach it in the right way.
2006-10-26 00:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say "another affair" if she has cheated on you before and you feel this way dont keep going through it, you will never will be able to trust her again. Time to get rid of her and start fresh!
2006-10-26 00:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Spastikus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont ask/bug her about it or she will have an affair,trust me.you know you should be able to tell if shes that type of person otherwise keep yer eyes open and mouth shut.
2006-10-26 00:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably afraid of losing her, but if you dont want to lose her then stop suspecting her as it will push her away....trust your heart......
2006-10-26 00:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has already implied this with her actions...maybe you are the one of the few men that can pick up on hints....OR maybe you are cheating on her and guilt and imagination is making you accuse her, Maybe you are just nuts and forgot to take your meds...who knows? Let me meet your girlfriend and I'll tell you in 30 seconds if she would cheat on you.
2006-10-26 00:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal insecurity based on past experiences and based on your own feelings of what you would do in that situation.
2006-10-26 00:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by sandgoanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are an immature, possessive jerk with control issues. Get some therapy before your partner gets tired of your headgames and dumps you.
2006-10-26 00:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all i can say is to stop suspecting.......because time will come you and your wife's going to have problems about that...trust me (especially if u suspects ALOT)
2006-10-26 00:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you're just a bit too paranoid. you must must learn to keep your feelings in control. tried going for any counselling?
2006-10-26 00:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by real.instinct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋