sometimes i feel like touching a woman just romancing but she wont allow me. what do i do, do i go double dating.bcos 4now she is the only woman in my life.she is still a virgin and claims to love me too.
2006-10-26 00:19:30 · 27 answers · asked by IDRIS S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like either she's religious to the point that she only believes in sex after marriage or she has made some other spiritual stand which is why she wants to wait. If you do love her, then you will respect her beliefs, remain faithful to her and wait until after the two of you marry before you bring up sex again. Your sexual urges and the temptation to be with someone else will always be around, but it's up to you to have the self control to resist.
2006-10-26 00:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the moment wen ur woman will allow u to touch you. If she doesn't want and u forcibly try to touch and romance her she may block ur activities forevr. So jst have patience and chill. Let her take her own time. Love is not only about romancing each other bt also allowing each other to have his or her own space. Give her that and wait untill she gives u a green signal.
And please for God's sake don't go double dating, coz tht will take both of u far frm each other. She may not be able to trust u completely in future if u do tht. And until thn jst be with her and keep loving her.
Good Luck & God Bless!!!
2006-10-26 00:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been in that situation before, I can assure you that she does love you even if she doesn't want to roaming around south of the boarder. For those of us who are raised to wait until marriage the idea of even letting someone touch down there is HUGE for us. It took a lot for me to get used to it. It's really scarey almost. It's not that she doesn't trust you she probably doesn't trust herself. Don't push to hard, or you might loose her if she's a strong woman. Just love her... that's all that you can really do to show her that it's alright. Be gental with her whatever you do and if you really want it that bad to show her how much you care claim wondering hands every once in a while... It worked for my man.
2006-10-26 00:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am a virgin and with someone since almost 6 yrs. He's nt a virgin. Am for sex after marriage and he has no prob with that. He has waited that long and will still coz he respect me and my feelings and love me. He don't double date as every free time he's with me.
So, it's either you wait for her or don't but no cheating.
2006-10-26 00:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a fool you are. you should be happy that she is virgin and you will be the first one to taste her, why cant you wait or get marry soon. And a person who says that he love her, then they will not think to cheat her, Love is not having sex, its the feeling and understanding and trusting and caring but not betray. Have Patience.
2006-10-26 00:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your woman doesn't want you to touch her, DON'T!!...you are probably touching her in a sexual way and because she is a virgin, she doesn't feel comfortable. Caress her hair, hold her hand, give her a warm hug and hopefully she will let you get to 2nd base.
2006-10-26 00:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just show ur conformation by giving her a engagement ring, may be she is very orthodox person, and believes sex after marriage only . if u really love her , than just wait for her permission, 1 day u'll get ur all fruits, including BIG MANGOES ALSO.
HA HA HA
2006-10-26 00:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means she wants to taste the romance after mirrage, don't go for double dating just go ahead and complete your mirrage and then u will really feel it different
and i think she is doing the right thing and she deserve a good life
good luck :)
2006-10-26 00:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Soulmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes My wife and I did not do it till we got maried and wow what a difference it makes. I have had relations with other peolpe that we did thing but regretted it.
2006-10-26 00:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by robertemorehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, we live in the year 2006. You have to test drive before you buy a car. Sexual compatibility is a big part in marriage. My suggestion is for you to find a way to tell her that you need to try her before you guys get married. If not then, just get a hooker.
2006-10-26 00:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋