Hi. What do you guys think? is there hope for me and this guy:
We work together. A year ago he was flirting with me a lot. I wasnt interested but we used to go out with mutual friends. i started to like him. He's very funny, really smart and knew all the right things to say plus he did all the little things to grab my attention. anyway, long story short, i was going thru a bit of a rough patch and was kinda unpleasant towards him (and most ppl around me). I'm crazy about him though. We still go out with friends but he doesnt seem to be interested in more than a friendship.
Here's my question: Should i forget about the possibility of a relationship with this guy or should i try to work things out? And if you think theres hope for us what do i do to to show him that i love him? (other than telling him ofcourse, i dont want to be too forward, there was a lot of bad air between us in the past year).
What do u think?
2006-10-26 00:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Queenb22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's already decided the answer to that, but you can do things differently and have a heart to heart sometime about your bad behavior and maybe hope....
2006-10-26 00:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't hurt to try and work things out. You never know, he might still feel the same way about you and if things don't work out at least there won't be any what ifs.
Next time you go out together be a more attentive to him. Make eye contact and show him that you're listening. Smile sweetly at him often throughout the evening to make sure he catches your eye. A little flirting won't hurt.
If he still doesn't get it (some men can be dense) you might have to be a little more direct. Let him know that you realise that you were awful towards him and that you are sorry for the way you treated him. Explain to him that you were going through a tough time and that perhaps you guys could start over.
Good luck! I really hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-26 07:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see girl i just dont wanna break ur heart . but jus answer 1 question . when u were going through rough patch did he try to help u out or even ask u wats d problem . believe me if a guy likes u he will definitely notice every change in ur behaviour even flimmiest of change. plus u urself r saying dat he is interested in only friendship. he is just not into u. y waste ur life on such a dumbo. 1 more thing bcoz u already liked him everything he did (which might be just part of his attitude ) made u feel dat he liked u. jus think about it, ok?
2006-10-26 07:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by gurjot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you start communicating him because there should not be communication gap between any relationship. Don't ever try to take any middleman between you and him.Start giving him hints directly such as, If I started liking you then what will you do?
Tell him why you appreciate him etc. etc. and then see what is his reaction. Don't ever loose hope. If you really love him you will definitely get him. All the best.
2006-10-26 07:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nimisha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, just ask him for a candle light dinner, go out wid him but alone this time, make some x-cuses like ur bday kind of stuff, give a good gift like scented perfume kind of stuff, judge out his feelings from his talks, and try to get involve wid him by asking him about his love affairs wid somebody, if he does nt have , then go directly and tell him, that u like him or love , whatsoever, dont linger this issue yaar, its allready 1 year , go ahead
gud luck
2006-10-26 07:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should clean up the bad air! You would pave the way for your friendship by talking about what happened and apologizing for any unpleasant behavior. Let the friendship renew itself and see where that leads.
2006-10-26 07:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by mama T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god has given us brain and heart. to think and to feel. in this world each and every relations connected with the rule
give and take. weather it is son and mother, teacher and children, employee employer, evan just think god and human.
you just do one thing. test him and yourself also.
there is two way to test. first try to get near of him, and do few things which he like most, still he dont care, than second try to avoid him again same he react than i tell you forget him. because there is no sense to make a relation with pressure.
2006-10-26 07:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, u may want to tell him straight to face...telling him u were sorry for treating badly...explain that u were experiencing a tough patch...if he really likes u, he will understand
2006-10-26 07:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you showed your true colors & it cost you. your lucky he still hangs around you.move on.
2006-10-26 07:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by swashbuckler82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres always hope...............Bob Hope and no hope.........
2006-10-26 07:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by chris n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋