Well mine is somewhere with his best friend. He is not answering his cell and his friend is not answering either of his cells. You would think after 14 years of marriage my husband would know what kinds of problems this behavior is going to cause.
2006-10-25 23:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Airlantiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not that it is any of your business but we had sex on Tuesday night and I had assumed we would on Wednesday night until he never came home.
2006-10-26 00:11:01 · update #1
Mine's just wakin' up at his momma's house in Texas cause I filed for divorce. Yeehaw!!!!
2006-10-26 00:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by salsamama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, i think he knows exactly what problems this behavior will cause...You will probably be angry with him, and then get over it after a while.
I don't think he feels he has anything to worry about...you should just get out of the house, take a breather, don't think about him...if you have kids, take them too. Stop worrying about him, he is an adult, and he should have the decency to tell you where he is. Just be fair and leave him a note, and let him know where you will be.
Stressing is not going to bring him back sooner, and you are just going to drive yourself crazy thinking about what is going on. Just give him the benefit of the doubt, until you have solid proof. When you do talk to him, brace yourself and tell him in one sentence, that you were worried, and just wanted to know if he was ok. Then just leave it...You need to show him that you still have your individuality, just as he obviously does. Individuality is needed,however, in a couple,it should not compromise respect, and love for each other.
2006-10-26 07:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in Texas you probably own a shotgun.
Throw his clothes on the dirt in front that you call a lawn and be waiting in a rocker with a shotgun much like the Tori Amos CD cover.
Tell him to go live with the people he was out with all night and plant a shot at his feet.
He'll either run, or beg. But he'll get the message.
Oh, and, shoot low you don't really want to hit him, do you?
2006-10-26 07:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your husband is with his best friend....he's with some female holed up in some cheap motel or her place (same difference)
Why don't you save yourself a lot of grief-----Seek out an attorney---(GOOD FAMILY KICK BUTT FEMALE in TEXAS)----have this attorney file for divorce -----have your cheating spouse served---and don't say anything about it ......Catch this lying cheater on the surprize fall-out! :)
Before doing this----(REMOVE ALL communal $$$ from the bank account)-----Open a checking or savings in your NAME only-----Have all your joint credit cards stopped----(take your name off of anything that is shared-----Change your beneficiaries on all 401 k pensions--or anything to do with securities---put the beneficiaries as your children. Secure a PO box and don't receive any more mail in your name at the family residence----If you're not working---get a JOB---you'll need to be self-supporting-----Loser Lying MEN usually don't keep up with their child support obligations let alone their spousal support obligations--
NOW----you've done the foot work----FILE THAT divorce and be done with this MAN----don't use the excuse YOU LOVE HIM...because honey----Call a spade a spade----IF HE TRULY LOVED YOU the man wouldn't be laying up somewhere else at night! You deserve better!!
2006-10-26 07:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow texas, go to eagle mountain church and praise your cares away! are you in fortworth? Kenneth Copelands church is there man... go there go there! i would! its AWESOME!!!!
as far as your hubby goes? when he gets in, calmly ask him where he has been, tell him you were worried about him and tried to call but got no answer. tell him you want to know coz u care and were worried.
he will feel guilty and be sorry if it was an honest mistake. he will get defensive and upset if he has something to hide. but these responses are only sure thing if u approach him kindly and not sarcastically or accusingly.
aaanyways, get yourself to those churches, they are like the best churches in the entire WORLD. im not kidding! im in Australia and would PAY to go there! hehe. big fan of KCM ministries. lol
2006-10-26 08:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is out playing deer hunter, but he called when he went in the woods and just now when he came out for a minute. I didn't tell him too, that is just a respect we have for each other. Sounds to me like yours doesn't respect ya very much. Good luck.
2006-10-26 13:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm at work right now, but when I left the house my hubby was getting in the shower to get ready for work.I never worry where and what hes doing.I'm not that insecure.
2006-10-26 08:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably out banging some hooker which you could have prevented by spreading for him once in a while!!! Instead you close your box up tighter than 36 inch jeans on a 400 lb fat guy.
2006-10-26 07:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by alexpizass 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say but she'll be sending him home soon, you two need to sit down and have a serious talk.
2006-10-26 08:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a mobile phone it should have a GPS. Try contacting its network provider to track him down. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-26 07:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanjean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋