This lady that I know marry to a tax lawyer that is what she said. He's 61 years old and she's 30 years old. They don't have kids together but she has kids from other man before she they got married.
She's his number three wife. Most of his past marriages he's the one who divorced them. That is what she told me and my other friends. What do you think of this kind of marriages. As far as I know most marriages have fights in some point during their marriages. I think the have been married now for more than 5 years I'm not sure or maybe six years.
2006-10-25 23:40:10 · 16 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would think that arguing 3 times a year is very little....
2006-10-26 01:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I've argued with my lover about that many times in the year and a half we've been living together. Most of it was due to stress since we've moved to a foreign country together and don't speak the local language. We always talk with eachother. Sometimes we disagree but, rarely ever does it turn into an argument when it does it's over soon and nothing dramatic.
Why are you asking about someone elses relationship anyways?
2006-10-26 00:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My step father is 63 and my mother is 40. They rarely argue and they are very much in love. The less a couple argues, the longer they will stay together. When my mom was with my real father, they fought everyday and had a nasty divorce. Although I dont have much experience, I am speaking in behalf of my parents.
2006-10-25 23:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Go For Broke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) Like they set a date to argue, a date to argue? 'In 2007 lets argue on the 7th of January, if you are available, because on the 6th we have a party to go?'
b) They may argue 3 times but ending up not talking to each other for rest of the year.
I don't know. If it works for them it's ok with me. Even though deep down I don't see much communication.
2006-10-25 23:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by marissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my man for about a year now and we live together. We have only had like 2 little bitty means nothing fights. My mom and her husband never fight either. If you discuss things before you do them and have respect for each other, then there is no need to fight. If you just talk to each other, that is all that is needed.
2006-10-26 06:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally arguing three times a year is normal, as long as it's not a violent argument.
The age gap and his divorce rate are worrying though.
2006-10-25 23:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's normal for them may not be normal for other couples but arguing 3x a yr is great in my opinion.
2006-10-25 23:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times a year? that sounds very good to be. married bliss in fact. just a quick question. why are you getting your knickers in a twist over someone elses relationship?
2006-10-25 23:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by ms sensible 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arguing is a normal part of a relationship, the making up is great
2006-10-25 23:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not normal, but quite nice, I think. If they don't have anything to argue about, why argue?
It doesn't seem like she's complaining, so why bother...???
2006-10-25 23:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋