,spend the whole time together and don`t talk old room mate lives close and his x-crush goes over there and so does he. always answers question w/question,I found this out myself not by choice. all have same circle of friends, co-dependantcy, scared, need to hear opinions,still w/me this never stops and the lies keep on coming, I know they are he has no conscience just keeps lieing and can look at me straight in the face doing it no attention , left crying , he leaves. need help to finalize this nitemare.
2006-10-25 22:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by miranda1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please pack your bags and never look back. i know it's hard but i have been there. believe me when i tell you he will never change. just remember that when one door closes another one opens. i am now been with the same man for over 18years and i must say i have learned a big lesson. you need to start over and make to haste. good luck. i know you can do it.
2006-10-25 22:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took the time to write this, take the time to do it right, please. I'll try and read between the lines but?
It sounds like you hubby has other things on his mind besides you honey. If he's lying to you all the time, why are you listening? Why give him an ear to tell his lies to? tell him to take it to his roomy.
One other reason is he's into something else he can't control, drinking, drugs, why is he doing this, if so.
The next time he comes over with tales, tell him you want a break. Tell him you need a rest period, maybe a week, a month. You need time to decipher what's going on between you both. Maybe then you'll see what's behind his tales and what's going on behind the closed doors, than you can tell him how you feel.
Right now I would suggest, without any more 'to do, show him the door, quickly.
2006-10-26 05:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation that lasted only 7 yrs but even that was too long of a time to put up with all the crap. You hang on cause you think in time things will change but they never do. Your best bet is to end it while you can cause it is obvious that this relationship is going to continue like it is until you gain some self-esteem and realize that you deserve so much more in life than what you are putting yourself through.
2006-10-26 05:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patients has a reward at one time. Things will change if you pray. God can change anyone Your situation will change.. Be quite do not ask anything. Pray to God (Jesus).
2006-10-26 05:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋