The really facts for this question is that some people has a serious problem in their lives, maybe of pride, Arogancy etc, but if you want to help or advice them, they feel you are embarassing them or you are trying to intrude in his or her live or family afair.
I mean they felt they dosen't have problem at all.
So in this regard, how can such a person be help out, who fails to realise that he or she has a problem.
please my fellow brothers and sisters I need an answer to this question.
thanks
Ernest.
2006-10-25 22:09:31 · 3 answers · asked by Ernest J 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
Until they realise it is a problem it is near impossible, talk to them as a friend so they will know you will be there for them when they need help but if you push it to hard they could alienate you. Without knowing the problem but knowing that they have to be at a real low to understand there is something wrong. Not much help is it, sorry.
2006-10-25 22:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by grandpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride is the mother of all sins, so wise men say. When you don't forgive, it is because of pride. When you don't accept your transgressions/mistakes..it is because of pride...etc. It is difficult sometimes to accept one's mistakes...especially if confronted with it. The best way is to tell your friend what you feel about what he is doing....i.e. i feel hurt because you did not reply to my message..(and do NOT say: "you are insensitive and rude, you did not even reply to my message..) It is not the words that you say that usually affects the person, it is HOW YOU SAY IT.
So go ahead and tell your friend of his/her problems ..but do it the right way.
2006-10-25 22:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try find a similar instance or movie and play,,,
mock up a story... serious
2006-10-25 22:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by SUN F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋