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I Don't Believe That I Ever Had One...I Need To Now How To Have One And What Is The Feeling You Get When You Do Have One!

2006-10-25 20:54:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

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you generally will know if you have had one. best advice is to try self exploration and see what feels good and what does not.

http://www.completeorgasmguide.com/Orgasm/mystique.htm

2006-10-25 20:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some dictionaries still give the subsidiary meaning - a similar point of intensity of emotional excitement. The adult female should have this regularly.
In a human female orgasm, orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoris's spongy tissue. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the clitoris moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size by about 30% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable, although not all sexually active women experience this.

From what you have said, it appears that your have Orgasmic dysfunction-
The inability to have orgasm is called anorgasmia, ejaculatory anhedonia, or inorgasmia. In situations where orgasm is desired, anorgasmia is mainly thought of as being caused by an inability to relax, or 'let go'. It seems to be closely associated with performance pressure and an unwillingness to pursue pleasure, as separate from the other person's satisfaction. It was the psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, in his 1927 book The Function of the Orgasm, who first made orgasm central to the concept of mental health and defined neurosis in terms of blocks to having full orgasm. A recent Redbook survey shows that 52% of women regularly fake orgasms. Only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse. 43% of women report “some kind of sexual problem” – like inability to achieve orgasm, boredom with sex, or total lack of interest in sex.
Certain drugs have been reported to have enhancing effects on orgasm. Nitrite inhalants are used by both men and women to enhance orgasm. Marijuana has been rumoured to enhance and prolong both male and female orgasms, while at the same time delaying ejaculation.GHB, GBL and 1,4 butanediol are commonly used to enhance orgasms.

however i suggest you to see a lady Gynocologist and tell her problems and she will give proper treatment

Best of luck

2006-10-25 21:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you had one then you would know it, so you deffinately have NEVER had one. You'll know cause it will scare the heck out of you the first time. You will have an overwhelming feeling of sheer pleasure, and you will be jerking all over the place. Let me know when it happens. I think that your first orgasm should be with yourself, not with a partner. It's something special that you need to experience alone for the first time.

2006-10-25 20:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

When you start to feel an overwhelming, pleasurable sensation, then you know that you are having an orgasm. You may feel drained or really relaxed afterward. I have been having orgasms since I was like 6 or 7 years old.

2006-10-25 20:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by UVRay 6 · 1 0

When you reach an orgasm, especially for the first time, you will lose all control of your body and it will start shaking. If it's your first time it might even be too intense for you and you may wana stop before cumming. Trust me, if you have an orgasm, you will know that you're having it! Good luck;)

2006-10-25 21:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0 0

It's just the highest, most greatest feeling...your body starts shaking, hot flashes lol...just a bigggggg relief

2006-10-25 20:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Maria 2 · 2 1

Believe me when you have one you will know.

2006-10-25 21:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by couchP56 6 · 0 0

Get your bf.to do the double whammy,poke and tickle the same time.

2006-10-25 22:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by hunter 6 · 0 0

Either change your batteries or change your boyfriend or both and believe me you WILL know

2006-10-25 21:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Believe me, you've never had one because you would definately know if you did!!!! Tell your man to focus on your clit!! It gets better and better, then......OMG!!!

2006-10-25 20:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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