Ok it was a day at school as usual cept for one problem.I hadnt gone to the bathroom all day.I hate using school bathrooms cause there so dirty.But then again I was about to explode so I raised my hand and asked to go.I literally ran outta class.I got to the bathroom opened the 100pd door(or so)and as soon as I entered I heard a loud BANG.Like the toilet lid seat went up or down.So I knew someone was in the stall.I had to use the urinal nearest the stall cause the other one was waaaayy...messed up.So as I was there minding my buisness I happened to look down and saw pants,socks,and underwear(tighty whities).I got concerned that something happened to someone so I zipped up and walked to entrance of stall.Opened it and saw two naked guys one sitting on top of each other stripped completely.I said"i wont tell"and walked out in shock.
This happened about a week ago.I dont know what to do.Tell to prevent from happening again.or keep it to myself.Give me your opinion.Nothing cruel please.
2006-10-25 20:01:35 · 33 answers · asked by Aces747 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By the way:If you didint already know im 13 this is 8th grade.
2006-10-25 20:27:25 · update #1
Sigh so many intresting opinions,if anyone else sides me saw this the two would be laughing stocks,I can honestly say am the most honest boy in 8th grade.I have mixed emotions right now.
2006-10-25 20:30:45 · update #2
Well whats hurts me alot is that I was shocked and basically...saw everything and stuff not needed to be seen.they looked at me with a look that said"OH MY GOD!!!"
2006-10-25 20:35:08 · update #3
Opinions please i need some advice.Cant tell my freinds theyll make fun of me for it.
2006-10-25 20:58:45 · update #4
Reason why the door was unlocked.It was too passionate or the lock wasnt working.60 year old school what do you expect....
2006-10-26 03:36:18 · update #5
If it's disturbing to you and you feel you need help in coping with this, talk to your parents or someone you trust.
But if it's just to get them in trouble, it's really none of your business. Would it make any difference if it was a boy and a girl?
Would you like someone telling on you? Maybe they did it because they feel they need to hide their sexuality from the rest of the world. It won't do anyone any good but it could harm them a great deal.
As I said, you need to tell someone you trust but only if you feel it has harmed you somehow and you need to get past it.
2006-10-25 20:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by KIRA1AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 'interesting' for lack of better word but the most important question is.. were they both your age? Or was one of them much older?
If one was much older you NEED to tell your school counselor and then your parents. If not, then disregard it all and forget it happened. Don't mention it to anyone because not only will that possibly hurt the two involved but you.
School rumors can break a person apart and more so, cause a person to do the unthinkable. If you are still confused, my best advice is to talk to your counselor if you can't trust your parents.
Whatever you do, remember that what you saw does not make you a bad person.
2006-10-26 04:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by The Aviator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think real hard. If you were those kids parents what would you'd want him to do?
Because they did not just have sex in the restroom. They also skipped class.They're grades are probably messed up.
I know right now that does not sound like a big deal now, but it will honestly effect them.
They also put you in a uncomfortable position, of having to deal with something like that.
Now tell me are you more or less eager to use the restroom.
Is this effecting you to the point you can't even focus with classwork or homework.
Because if it is you have to tell someone. You don't even have to report them if you don't want.
But talking about it to someone you trust to keep a secret might help you feel a whole lot better.
Tell your confidant about what you saw and how it made you feel. Also, why its really bothering you.
2006-10-26 01:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself if you would tell if it had been a guy and a girl.You have to do what is right for youand your values but I don't think it is a great idea to make it about the sexual preference of these boys because you are opening a can of worms better left unopened. You could be seen as a bigot and they may suffer backlash as well Because even if you don't tell some one will find out about it eventually.They always do.This type of thing will spread really fast.Good luck
2006-10-25 20:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ray,
It seems that you should be taking care of you at the moment. This has really messed up your mind and you need to be able to talk to somebody about it that you can trust. Like the school counsellor, and that probably doesnt mean your friends-they will probably start making rude and cruel jokes about the whole deal. It is a big deal though to you, and you know that it is wrong on a number of different levels. You really need to have some support sooner that later. It can turn into a real trauma if it isnt dealt with properly. Praying for you.
2006-10-26 03:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by delwyn7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't begin to imagine how you must have felt seeing something that out of place in the school restroom but here's my take on it. Let it be, this is something that does not concern you. You may have been a witness to the "activity" but this is something the two boys must address to those who it would most immediately involve, of which you are not part of. As for future witnesses are concerned I am certain that they will either lock the stall door next time or cease their extra curricular activities entirely.
2006-10-25 20:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Got Questions? I've Got Answ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell teacher they could get kicked out of school for doing that in the school toilets though you can be gay and open about it in the 21st century say nothing they get away with it only you know nobodyelse including their parents where alot of explaining would have to be done thank you
2006-10-26 06:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a school councilor? I would go there first. Not because you want to tell on anyone, but because this is something that you are upset about and may need to talk over with someone. Usually they are trustworthy and you can tell them things without feeling that you are tattling.
2006-10-26 06:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by TheresaE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave it alone, unless you think one of the guys was being forced to do it. Telling would only get them in big trouble and probably mess them up for life. They took a stupid chance having sex somewhere where it was against the rules, but they are gay, and having their parents called to the office to learn about it would be a terrible way to be forced out of the closet. Let them do it on their schedule.
2006-10-25 20:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by MissM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid the conduct you witnesses is totally unacceptable, and should be handled with discernment, first of all tell your parents, what you witnessed and if you know the boys names give it to them. let them handle it from there. your parents will no doubt have a long talk with you about sexual relations, experimenting in such behaviour, etc. in not telling what you saw, you may have left the impression to those boys that you would be willing to do the same thing. so you have to handle it or it could become a much bigger problem for yourself down the road
2006-10-26 00:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋