im in a wheelchair and can never tell if a guy is flirting with me. i am at a sports competition with alot?

Question

of other people in chairs and this guy who coached another team kept tapping me on the shoulder, looking at me alot and smiling. is it liekly hes flirting since he probably knows i would hope that im just a normal person? or is he just being friendly?

Answer 1

hey hes flirting! just go with it....stop thinking about why he would flirt ......just have fun with it and flirt back ;)

Answer 2

That's probably not a question anyone on here can answer. Wheelchair or no wheelchair, it can be tricky to figure out if someone if flirting or just being friendly.

If he coaches sports competitions where people have wheelchairs he's probably so used to knowing people with chairs he doesn't think a whole lot about that.

I think all anyone can do in a situation where it isn't clear if someone is flirting is to just assume he's just being friendly. If he's flirting with any hopes of having things develop into anything his behavior will increase. There's also the chance he's someone who flirts just to flirt - but then his behavior would probably not escalate if that were the case. I think you just have to tune in, pay attention, and see what happens.