Do you think it's healthy to be in touch with ex-girlfriends?

Question

Just woken from a great dream, no need to go into detail, and i've just realised I'm still in touch with most of my ex-girlfriends.
Is this right and what do you reckon are the chances of getting them all together to re-enact the dream? ;)

Answer 1

Your wings are melting....

Answer 2

I do it, but its playing with fire. It's very hard to meet up with and spend time with someone you have been intimate with before without landing up back in bed with them.
Have ex's in different cities. That helps a bit.
Call them all honey, not by name, saves embarassing mistakes at crucial moments.
Never say the three words. Ever.
About your dream. Probably impossible. If I attempted it, I think I would no longer have the option to keep going back. If you want to do the group thing, get a cheap flight to Eastern Europe and get hookers to get the thought out of your system. You'll probably find it's not as good as you imagined. Can be quite embarassing going to all the bother of setting up some group action, only to be only use as a spectator after 5 mins or so. With hookers at least you don't have to see them again.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Slim chance, but the idea will keep you warm on the long winter nights eh ?

Keep asking my ex similar questions, but no.... She threw her wellies away. (*****).

Haaa ha ha.

Joking aside for a moment.... I have to keep in touch with her, she's my daughters Mother, we have a perfectly normal relationship as best friends.... We knew eachother for 13 years, I know more about her than her own mother, and vice versa. It's healthy, but only if it stays as friends, not some weirdo obsessvie thing.... although that is a normal phase after a breakup, it should not last more than about a month.

Answer 4

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/djSqQ

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 5

man oh man! They are EX girlfreinds for a reason, the chances of your dream coming true even if they did all get together are slim as they would almost certainly be talking about how they should all gain Oscars from their performance with you in bed, they'd be talking about your worst habits and about their current boyfriends so the chances of you being happy are slim to nothing, wake up! :o)

I am still in touch with my first love, of over 23 years ago, we are friends and I am sooo glad I didn't marry him but I care for him and my husband leaves us to chat together. I think it's good to be friends afterwards, there's been noone I would blank, I'd give them all a cuddle fro putting up with me

Answer 6

Depends on how old you are. If you're under 30, stay in touch, but the gettin em all together ain't gonna happen unless they want to cut you up to pieces. haha

There is always the good old one on one hookups. Maybe you can convince each one to be taped with you and you could make a whole movie. Each scene is you and a different girl.

Answer 7

Sometimes lifestyles require you to have contact to exes. I have always tried to stay in touch with exes, but sometimes have had to break off all contact. If you manage to remain friends with exes so much the better - but this is an exception rather than a rule.

Answer 8

theres nothing wrong with be in touch with ex girlfriends, as long as you keep it at a friendly level only - there must have been a reason why you broke up and most times its better for both parties to keep it that way.....

so your dream might be better to stay just that - a dream lol

Answer 9

No not really. I guess though people can split up and still be friends. If your now in a relationship it may casue alot of problems of course and you need to stop and think if that is how you would want your girlfriend to do also.

Answer 10

I'd say you're chances are nil and if you try it you won't be in touch with any of them anymore.

Seriously though, it's good that you've managed to stay friends with all of them and as long as the friendships don't affect current relationships it's healthy.

Answer 11

No. I think that psychologically , it is very un-healthy . Ex-boyfriends are very often bad reminders of bad relationships. Most females want to forget the past , and think only of their present relationship.Like words to a song that goes like this : I am going to destroy every-thing that holds a memory of you ,.... I am going to take the curtains off the walls and burn them ....... .