The first time you have sex, does it hurt like hell? Every1 says so. What if you and your significant other are both virgens? If more details needed please which ones
2006-10-25 19:25:49 · 17 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is a little painful the first time, and can be more uncomfortable if your both virgins, but what can make the pain not last as long would be to go slow, once he's inside he needs to stop for a moment and let your body adjust. And lube helps as well.
2006-10-25 19:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Deedee 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Both of you being virgins might be nice. My first time I think the dude was drilling for oil. You might bleed a little so have a towel handy to protect the sheets. All I remember was that it did not hurt like people said it would. My feet went numb from being in the air. And all the clawing, moaning, and porno faces did not happen. Have birth control handy. If you are too embarrassed to buy rubbers or talk about them, you are not mature enough for sex. Horny enough yes, but mature enough , no. Missionary position is great for the first time. He might accidentally try to put it in your butt so be prepared for that. Guide him to where you want it. He won't have a clue where he's putting it. Have a sense of humor about the whole thing and take your time. Privacy is key.
2006-10-25 22:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends. If you are with someone who is inexperienced and rushes through clumsily because he doesn't have a clue, then yes, it could be very painful. Have you every gone horseback riding? Some woman actual lose the per verbal cherry while riding a horse which will ease the pain of the first time. Go slow, get a book, trust me if you are both virgins, a little visual aid can help a lot.
2006-10-25 19:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by cablegirl 50 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is not much pain at all but the key is to make sure you are REALLY READY! If you are not, you will be too tense. You shouldn't plan to have sex and do it just because you had said you would.
Wait until you are actually turned on and it feels right and it's a natural progression. If you are turned on by your partner and feel ready then you will be lubricated enough to make it more comfortable. Breath deep & relax. Everyone is nervous on their first time but if you are both relaxed and comfortable with each other it will happen naturally.
2006-10-25 20:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. Doesn't hurt like hell. But there is some pain. Nothing you'll pass out from. In most cases, your so nervous it's you first time...you really don't focus on the discomfort.
2006-10-25 19:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by nina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the size of the penis. If it's big, then maybe it'll hurt or just very uncomfortable. If it's average, then maybe it'll feel weird in the beginning and a slight pain for a few seconds. If it's small, then you won't feel pain, You'll just think to yourself "Is this what sex is? How boring!!!"
2006-10-25 19:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It kinda hurts, but the degree depends on people. I mean it could be possible that it might not hurt you as much it does to someone else. The key is to try and relax. don't worry about it and let the mood and situation take over any of your fears. you can also try some lubris that will help too.
2006-10-25 19:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by highrise 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
me and my first were both virgins when i lost mine...yes it hurts alittle for the girl..its not the physical pain that bothers you...i dont know how old you are ...or how long you have been with your boyfriend but girl..its the emotional pain that gets u...i was with my first for 6 months befor we had sex and i was 16 yrs old.. we broke up after 3 years.. and that was the worst part...i loved him and he loved me and it didn't work out..i just wanna let you know to make sure b/c after we broke up i would of rathered any physical pain life could have handed me just to stop hurt over him....be sure!
2006-10-25 19:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Snow 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the woman it hurts like hell the first time. It doesn't matter if he's a virgin, it doesn't hurt him like it does the female (unless he loses virgitity through anal sex), but for the woman, she breaks the hymen and starts bleeding and it does hurt.
2006-10-25 19:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
didnt hurt for me, but I was an active child. I rode horses, bicycles, climbed trees. I fell on my crotch so many times as a young girl, I must have broken my hymen way back then.
2006-10-25 19:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mintee 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋