2006-10-25 19:05:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
how old r u ? r u earning on your own or looking after your father's business ?r u able to support your family without your parent's help ?do your parents have more children who can look after them when they r old ?what type of girl is nisha ? does she belong to some other caste ?what about her parents ? think of answering all these questions & then decide what to do /
2006-10-25 19:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mukal
Dude u have the same problem like me my papa also not agree to marry with my freind becoz it is intercast relationship. I have 2 sister & papa said intercast marriage is a issue which make a difference b/w us from society & it will create a problem in future at the time of my sis's marriage.
If u think that u will stand on ur feets & earn individually for ur wife & family without any helpof ur parents & ur adult then think about ur marriage but what is ur parents objetion why they not gave u grant to marry with her.
My self also in tention because it is intercast marriage now papa allowed to me that boy but now I not satisfy with this decision becoz every second my papa's views comes in stand of my mind & I feel guilty for that my dad wants to me happy but I become selfish for my choice Now i am in double minded what i do but dear never break ur parents heart becoz they r the God for us but we r selfish never understands their feelings.
Plz write to me why ur parents against this relationship.
Take care & have a faith on ur GOD
2006-10-27 03:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mukul,
You havent written why you parents have said no to your marriage. Have you tried to convice your parents. Have you spoken to them and made the girl meet them. Even after all this if they refuse I suggest please do what your parents tell you. I know its a very difficult thing to do. Heart Breaks are difficult to handle. But do it for your parents. They will definately have a reason. They always wish the best for you.
2006-10-26 02:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young. enjoy your youth both of you, marriage is no fun, trust me. its fun sometimes, but not when you cant earn your bread and dont have a degree or two under your belt! get a job, wait for your girlfriend to finish her education, and if you are still determined even after a couple of years down the lane then all the best!
2006-10-26 07:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answer few question to you ---
Reason to marry her?
Why she?
What u r gaining or loosing by it?
What if not marrying her?
What u will be offering to her in future?
What is in u for her to marry u other than love?
Think about what she gains more if not marrying u?
Are u ready to sacrifice for a future to her?
Are u selfish to this love?
By marrying her what u expect from her and have u discussed it with her?
Finally if you could not marry her, then what?
If u have a clear cut answer only you can proceed.
2006-10-26 02:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all try to find the difference between merrying and marrying
then you can do in the right choice
2006-10-26 20:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would say listen to your parents. I have absolutely nothing against what you got going on, but usually listening to your parents is the best thing to do.
2006-10-26 02:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to gain their approval and blessings,if nothing is rong with u and her,,,why they dont agree,anyway,if u think u both r made for each other,, and u can afford a marriage,,,,,,and u both can stay committed to each other,,,,,,go for court marriage,,,,,,,,but remember,,,,,,think twice,cause in these type of cases,u both will be responsible for ur actions,,,,i suggest,,,,,try to eliminate the things that is making them disapprove this marriage
2006-10-26 06:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by shazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the reason they dont agree?..caste, age, nationality?..no..both urs and ur gfs names sound indian..so im thinking it's caste..if u really know u will stand by her..explain calmly to them..and are her parents in favor of a marriage?
2006-10-26 02:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asian guy,
u need your parents approval, at least 4 peace's sake...
delay ur "merrying" her and talk it over with your parents. thats the best advice. no eloping ok?
what of d gal's parents? are they in consonance with u, or in vowel?
Grace
2006-10-26 02:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋