2006-10-25 18:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You might have a condition called vaginismus. There is not much known about it yet but it can be really frustrating. Talk to your doctor about it and have him or her check to make sure nothing else is wrong. Also, search "vaginismus" on Yahoo and you can find out some things about it. Good luck, and don't feel like you're the only one.
2006-10-25 18:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by texashairdiva1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor theres many reason u might feel pain the least being not lubricated enough the worst being cysts
is he your first? keep having sex.. it will stop hurting.. your body has to get used to it.. try other positions for pleasure You might have a condition called vaginismus. There is not much known about it yet but it can be really frustrating. Talk to your doctor about it and have him or her check to make sure nothing else is wrong. Also, search "vaginismus" on Yahoo and you can find out some things about it. Good luck, and don't feel like you're the only one.
Then you need to talk to your partner and tell him if something is uncomfortable. Maybe he id just being too excited. Men have a tendency to be that way. If he is being gentle, then I would say you should probably consult a Dr. If you are talking about good sex...just go with the flow. I am sure that if he loves you he will listen to you and be a little more gentle if that's what pleases you.
Is he your first partner? If so, then tell him, you two need to talk about this, and if it will not help, then see a doctor. The reason can also be that you are not relaxed enough, maybe he is too rough with you. You have to take into account all these things, which can also be a reason that, as you say, your sex is not completed. But you have to relax and do not be afraid of sex at all. Good luck.
See a female gynecologist. She will be able to examine you and tell you if there's a physical reason for your pain. She'll also be able to talk with you about what's going on in your bedroom.
You and your husband shoud read sex therapist Ian Kerner's books--She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman; and He Comes Second: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man. Sexual gratification for both partners takes time, knowledge, and practice. But you should not be having pain during sex.
70% of women cannot have orgasms with intercourse. They need other stimulation of the clitoris. Read the above two books and follow directions, and you'll be much closer to having sex that's satisfying for both of you.
are you both unable to climax because of your pain and discomfort? You should definately consult your doctor immediately! Or if it is pain due to dryness, you should try a lubricant (ky jelly
2006-10-26 03:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by abhishek j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a female gynecologist. She will be able to examine you and tell you if there's a physical reason for your pain. She'll also be able to talk with you about what's going on in your bedroom.
You and your husband shoud read sex therapist Ian Kerner's books--She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman; and He Comes Second: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man. Sexual gratification for both partners takes time, knowledge, and practice. But you should not be having pain during sex.
70% of women cannot have orgasms with intercourse. They need other stimulation of the clitoris. Read the above two books and follow directions, and you'll be much closer to having sex that's satisfying for both of you.
2006-10-26 02:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your first partner? If so, then tell him, you two need to talk about this, and if it will not help, then see a doctor. The reason can also be that you are not relaxed enough, maybe he is too rough with you. You have to take into account all these things, which can also be a reason that, as you say, your sex is not completed. But you have to relax and do not be afraid of sex at all. Good luck.
2006-10-26 02:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Romi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to talk to your partner and tell him if something is uncomfortable. Maybe he id just being too excited. Men have a tendency to be that way. If he is being gentle, then I would say you should probably consult a Dr. If you are talking about good sex...just go with the flow. I am sure that if he loves you he will listen to you and be a little more gentle if that's what pleases you.
2006-10-26 01:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor theres many reason u might feel pain the least being not lubricated enough the worst being cysts
2006-10-26 01:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by dropped_skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you both unable to climax because of your pain and discomfort? You should definately consult your doctor immediately! Or if it is pain due to dryness, you should try a lubricant (ky jelly?).
2006-10-26 02:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Political hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem no so long ago, it could be a number of things, are you pregant? caus if you are it could be an eptopic pregnancy or it could be due to constipation, dioreeah, a cyst on your overie if it's to one side. xx
2006-10-26 03:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your first? keep having sex.. it will stop hurting.. your body has to get used to it.. try other positions for pleasure
2006-10-26 01:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by dodgeforlife1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your DR.
2006-10-26 02:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by WhatEVER27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋