my husbands aunt tells me the truth- my husband ignoring me?

Question

It wall started over a male friend I was talking to at the carnival while i was with my husband for a month.some one started a rumor that me and this friend was having sexual talk and had a affair and none of it was true.So, when he said he was not coming home and still needed to get his head straighten out that i could blame my friend for our break up in which nothing ever happened but talking and to keep in contact with my husband while he ws on the carnival,this so called friend i know also told other co-workers that he was going to take or split my husband up well know i feel he suceeded in doing it.I reget some things that have happened in when I left him first time and was a guy i was seeeing,he took me back then the past when we have been married but we had already started over and one time this year i filed for a divorce but before the 21 days were up i went to settle things and work things out and ended up spending a month an half out with him working on carn?he has no fault

Answer 1

Lets be honest this "so called friend" truly has no part in this. Sounds like your husbands head may never have been on "straight" If his head was on straight then he would be listening to his heart and not a bunch of rumors flying around. And wheres your respect for yourself, if you truly can say that you've never cheated then you need to take a stand! Where are your standards for yourself, what do you think your worth, and deserve. I would just ask you to think about this (even if your not a spiritual person) what do you think God wants for you? He loves you more than you could ever imagine and as his "child" he only wants the very "best" for you.! The questions is are YOU willing to ask that from the people around you??? Ever hear the expression "ask and you shall recieve" its completley true, ask for very little of yourself and from others and your bound to get. RAISE YOURSELF UP AND BE TREATED AND LOVED THE WAY YOU DESERVE!!

Answer 2

Why is getting "his head straightened out" an acceptable excuse for abandoning you?

You got caught... He has left.... Chase him if you want to continue the drama. But from his actions I guess it is a lost cause.

Divorcing him was the sanest thing you have done but you didn't follow through.

Quit following your heart and use your head. That's a nice way of saying grow up and act like an adult.

Ask your self this, where will this relationship be in five years. What can you see you two doing? Still partying with the carnival? Is that what you want out of life?

Answer 3

Friggin' carnies. I was in a carny family for a lot of years and I have seen it all. You can talk until you are blue in the face and it won't make a bit of difference. Carnies usually, for the most part, are always ready to believe the worst. My advice is to dump this jerk, who is probably not making enough money anyway, and move on to a real man. One who isn't into playing head games, lording it over their women, and strutting around like gorillas. Believe me. The only way I survived as long as I did with the one I was married to is because he wasn't on the road.

Answer 4

i'm a little lost but from what i can pick up it sounds as if he doesn't trust you. he should believe you no matter what anyone says. if he can't because of rumors and what has happened in the past then move on.

Answer 5

first of all you guys need to stop fighting over stupid stuff. you guys are not little teenagers nomore. you two need to sit down and talk about this or get some help. second all he need to stop getting mad at you and have a little bit more truth in you. so anyway good luck

Answer 6

try some marriage counselling and if that fails try divorce court.