2006-10-25 18:00:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
that's something that has to be your decision. it's your body, you are the one that has to live with that feeling for the rest of your life. you go thru the emotions of it all, so please only do it if you're absolutely positive that is what you think is best.
if you don't want to raise the baby, there is always adoption. so many wonderful couples out there want children and can't have them, they deserve to have kids.
2006-10-25 18:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your situation by any means but you need to follow your heart! no man knows what it is like to have baby growing inside or the emotions that go along with it. There are a lot of things to consider, which can be very confusing, hard, and emotional draining. Only you know whats best for you. Yes your young but it could be worse. And of course it is easier with support esp from the father, but in the long run no matter how hard things get, things usually work out, people come around and grow to accept and love the situation. If you decide to have an abortion make sure it is 100 percent your choice! Because once it"s gone theres no going back and you will be full of regrets. Bottom line dont let people tell you what to do, it's your body and your the one who will deal with the emotional affects the most. If you decide to have it be prepared to face the skeptics but stand your ground, it;s just the initial shock. Maybe your guy will come around after the shock goes away but dont count on it. I know this is a scary choice but do whats good for YOU!
2006-10-25 18:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by estkijedsco 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person that can protect the baby that is growing inside of you. Yes, baby like in human being. How dare your X tell you what to do. He is just thinking 18 years of child support. He is a coward and I don't use that word loosely. If you think you cannot handle a baby at this time of your life for one reason or another, there are many people that are anxiously wanting a baby, give them that gift, you will never regret it, but you will forever regret the other choice. From the moment of conception God knew your baby. Psalms 139:13-16 "For you yourself produced my kidneys; you kept me screened off in the belly of my mother. I shall laud you because in a fear inspiring way I am wonderfully made. your works are wonderful , as my soul is very well aware. My bones were not hidden from you when I was made in secret, When I was woven in the lowest parts of the earth. Your eyes saw even the EMBRYO of me, And in your book all its parts were down in writing, as regards the days when they were formed." So, the baby that is in your womb has already been destined by God, who is our creator and neither you nor your X have the right to change his or her destiny.
Now, as Dr. Laura would say, "go do the right thing".
2006-10-25 19:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by matriarch_seven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to your body, it's your decision. I'm guessing the main reason your ex wants you to abort is because he doesn't want to take responsibility for you being pregnant. I would strongly advise you to look into the side affects of abortion----what it can do to your body and your unborn child, your emotional and mental stability and how it will affect the rest of your life. There are so many other options besides getting an abortion, you can keep the baby, or have it adopted into another family and so on. Just remember, this is your uterus, your body, your decision, your life and most importantly your unborn baby. I'll keep you in my prayers and I'm sure you'll do the right thing!! :)
2006-10-25 18:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by presserized 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to have an abortion, or else you wouldn't be asking us about it. If he is your EX, then who cares what he wants!! He's not the one that has to live with that decision the rest of his life, now is he? It's a quick fix for a guy who doesn't want to be responsible, and be accountable for his participation in a sexual act. A act that created a life. A little life growing inside your body. Tell him you'll get an abortion, when he gets castrated. He'll change his answer pretty dern quick. Oh, and one more thing...UGHHGHHG!! I am getting so sick and tired of hearing this "your body your choice" crap. What about the baby's body?? Baby don't have a choice........
2006-10-25 18:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by frigidx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your children is a gift from God....Life with out children...Is unfulfilled...This is a choice that you have to make....And you will have to live with this for the rest of your life...Abortion is murder....If you make the choice to do this their will come Day your heart will cry for a long time....You will see children that would be the age of your child....And it will consume some people....Their is a resion you conceived this child...Who knows Jesus may figure you need this little person in your life...It is such a blessing from up above....It is a love that only a mother knows....To fill that baby move inside you for the very first....And to look into its little eyes for the very first time...And your Ex would stay my EX...This man is asking you to commit murder.. If you dont want this baby please please find someone to adopt it out too....Most of the time the adoption parents will pay for it all...Please dont kill your child.....This child will bring you joy and happiness...And it is someone that will love you unconditionally...And will always be their for you...trust me I no what I am talking about...God bless you and may the Lord show you how important it is to do the right thing....Pray about it.....I no things seem bad right now but trust me things will work out you will see....Tell your ex to go shove it were the sun dont shine...And to leave you and your baby alone...Someone special will come into your life and bring you and your baby lots of love and joy....
2006-10-25 19:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not worth going thru an abortion just cuz HE wants you to do it. if u don't want to do it, you'll probably always regret it if u do. having a child is one of the most amazing gifts in life, & don't let that guy take it away from you! once u have the baby you'll be so happy u didn't abort! anyhow,he doesn't sound like he really cares about u anyway, so there's no reason why u have to listen to him. tell him it's your choice, your baby, your body...and if you need to, if he won't listen to u or gets scary, get someone else involved. G-D BLESS YOU AND YOUR BABY
2006-10-25 18:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by blip 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do that baby is in you and not him.Do you want this baby or not;cause it is up to you not him.My ex husband wanted me to do the same but i wanted the babys so i now have a 5 yea old and a 3 1/2 year old. So all I can say is think of and do what you want not what he wants.
2006-10-25 18:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by momma04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you? A baby is a gift from God. If you can't raise the baby yourself, there are many couples who would take your gift of a baby, and cherish it forever. You don't need a man to raise a child. You don't need a man to give you permission to have a baby. You are a strong and beautifully made woman. You carry a gift inside of you. Don't be afraid to go it alone. You can do it. There are so many people surrounding you that would give you support. Just ask them. He is your ex for a reason. Don't second guess that now. That baby inside of you needs you to be strong and fierce. Fight for him/her and fight for yourself. Stand up for what you know your heart is telling you.
2006-10-25 18:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by M K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lets get this strait your ex?well if he is that stupid to want you to have an abortion.then leave him as your ex.he has no wright to want you to do anything.you should have your little baby.and give your baby a chance for life.if he didn't want a baby he should of had is rain coat on he made his choice.don't let him make yours.there really shouldn't be a choice to murder.if you should feel you don't want your baby let some nice couple adoped your baby.good luck i wish you all the best you and your precious baby.
2006-10-25 18:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋