2006-10-25 17:51:22 · 28 answers · asked by goldy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would not recommend having sex, until your boyfriend agrees to use protection.
2006-10-25 18:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your body and you need to protect your self. And if your boyfriend really cared about you he would use protection if for no other reason than to set your mind at ease and make your first time more comfortable. If he refuses then he is not considerate enough to be with you virgin or not. It is your body and you make the desions but really think about it, do you really want to give your self to someone that can't even respect your wishes for protection. Not to say your boyfriend has anything you can catch but if you give in this time then next time then it is easyer and easyer and at some point you could have problems. Your mind and your body are all your desion and you need to protect your self, and respect yourself and don't settle for anything less from anyone else. It is all up to you. Start now with making good desions about yourself. Beleive me when you are older you will be glad you did.
2006-10-25 18:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by melindarix@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know who and how many people he was with and what kind of diseases they may have had?
And why in the world would you allow a boyfriend to cash in on your V card ?? Don't you have any respect for yourself and the fact you are still a virgin? Don't you ........Oh.....Never mind....Your mind is made up to just give it away and maybe get aides or who knows what just for a few minutes of your llife!
2006-10-25 17:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to make sure that this is what you truly want to do. Really think about it even though you want to now you may regret it later. Also I wouldn't do it if he wasn't going to wear protection espcially if he isn't a virgin. Also you need to protect yourself from STD's. Some people that have a STD know they do but won't tell their partner and well you get it. Just make sure its what you really want and that if he is pressuring you to do it then don't. It won't make your relationship stronger trust me! Then if you decide it's right USE protection!!
2006-10-25 17:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need a new boyfreind, no humor intended. This is a really big change for anyone, male or female, why start that change by not protecting yourself or being with someone who will not protect you. You deserve to be treated better then this. Yes, HIV/AIDS is bad, I don't know of to many deaths that are worse, but herpes is forever. Why risk vaginal warts and the risk of cervicle cancer to make someone else..what??..happy? Please, babygirl, be more special then this, to yourself
2006-10-25 18:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by PJ H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with him. I'm serious. I had that same thing a couple years ago and I didn't have sex with him and it turns out that even though he said he was a virgin too, he was lying and he had herpes and would have given it to me. Just don't do it, imagine if it would have been HIV. If he's cool enough to loose your virginity to, he'll be cool enough to use a condom.
2006-10-25 17:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by charlottesamanthamirandacarrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course a guy would say that. what guy wants protection during sex? none of the ones i know. tell him you won't have sex unless you're protected. you can have unprotected sex when you're mature enough or even married, but until you've built a strong relationship up and trust eachother use condoms. make it a trojan (magnums are best). hope this helps! :D
2006-10-25 18:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use protection no matter what. There are too many things that can go wrong. I lost mine when I was 15 but if I had it to do over again, I would've waited, those guys didin't care about me like I thought they did, but thats just me.
2006-10-25 17:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer0208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do. Not. Do It. The guy is a jerk, you CAN get pregnant or get an STD. Not worth it on either count. Dump him and find a nice boyfriend that isn't totally self-absorbed and actually cares about you.
2006-10-25 17:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the only way you're having sex with him is if he uses a condom, and mean it! Get a fun one, they come in all sorts of colors and stuff. Make sure you know how to use it correctly.
http://www.trojancondoms.com/info_center/condom_use/
2006-10-25 17:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋