What would would you do if your husband refused to give you oral sex but he always wanted it from you?
2006-10-25 17:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by druhill119 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A better question would be "why doesn't he". Is it because he doesn't know how? Maybe he's afraid of going "downtown" Maybe you need to give him directions so he doesn't get lost or distracted from finding the house of "G".
Here's a trick you can tell him to do down there - tell him to trace out each letter of the alphabet with his tounge... I've never, ever, ever made it through the entire alphabet and without the female ripping my hair out.
Good Luck!
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2006-10-25 17:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on how you feel about giving him oral sex... I once heard a very intelligent man whom I greatly respect counseling a couple on this very issue. The man enjoyed giving oral sex to his wife, but his wife would never reciprocate because she didn't like it. This man told the husband, "Good for you if you like to give oral sex, but why would you ever want your wife to do something she wasn't comfortable with? What pleasure would you get out of that?" So, I guess what I'm trying to say is that if your husband has a true aversion to giving oral sex (for whatever reason), what pleasure would you actually get out of basically forcing him to do it by taking away something that you don't mind doing to him? I'm sure that in your relationship, there will be a time when you just don't want to do something (sexual or otherwise), and you will hope that your spouse understands and respects you.
2006-10-25 17:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all give and take in relationships. Picking your battles. It depends on how much you want or need it. I wouldn't miss it if my guy didn't do it. But if he stopped kissing me I'd get upset. It's all checks and balances. See if you can come to a compromise where you're both happy.
Or, demand lots and lots of cash.
2006-10-25 18:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to give to get. If he can't abide by that he shouldn't get it either.
Have you tried to find out why he won't? There might be something you can do to make it more 'appealing'. If not, at least your jaw will get a break, lol.
2006-10-25 17:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by greyrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give it to him, that is a 2-way street. He is just being selfish.
2006-10-26 06:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will ask him if he learn to share at kindergarten.if he didn't take him back to kinder &get your self a man who willdo any thing you ask,becouse your a priecces.if not dont give it to him....
2006-10-25 17:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use my teeth hee hee jk I think it would be time to have a little talk ;o)
2006-10-25 17:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he has issues.
2006-10-25 17:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell him too bad, we don't always get what we want, do we now?
2006-10-25 17:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋