my husband drank to much, and began to become a little to friendly with my friend. Hugging, touching, and laid on my couch with her. The next day he said it was nothing. He has nothing for her, and is not attracted to her. He feel sorry for her b/c her husband gives her no attention (truly). At 1st it was funny, but then I began to get pissed off. He tells me I am his only one, but I still have that in my mind & it is hard to get it out. I'm just looking for some advice. He tells and show me he loves me, and I do believe him.
2006-10-25 17:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
..."a little too friendly" my foot! Whilst he was giving her attention by "hugging, touching, and laying on YOUR couch with her" who was hugging, touching, and laying with you? No one? Right!
He is full of it and so is she. Drinking has nothing to do with it. It is only an excuse. He is a dog...put him out! You have every reason to be upset. She is a s***...not a friend. Send her on her way!
There is what you SAY and what you DO. He SAYS he loves you.....does what he DID show you that?
shoo, puppy! git!
2006-10-25 17:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you sure, but does he respect your feelings. If he knows how you feel about this would he stop doing this? It is very hard when a person is drunk, because actions are stronger then words. He says he did this because her husband does not give her any attention? So , he will give her attention by laying down in the couch with her for her husband? He should only worry about his wife. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about this, tell him you need to feel that you can still trust him so that this does not happen again. Love= understanding, sharing and Trust. Best of luck to ya!
2006-10-26 00:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason that many people call alcohol the "truth serum"...when we drink too much our inhibitions lower and we do things that we wouldn't normally do...things we wouldn't normally DO, but things that we desire to do, none the less. I'm not saying that your husband is harboring any overwhelming feelings for your friend, but one thing I can tell you for sure is that in the moment, when he was laying next to her on the couch, rubbing her and hugging her, he was probably thinking less about her feelings and more about his own. Do with it what you will, but I think that you might want to keep your hubbie on a short leash, at least when alcohol is around.
2006-10-26 00:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by missapparition 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
grown married men, drunk or sober don't lay up with another. little girl, you better nip this in the bud, right now. don't have that person over for drinks ever again. weather she's guilty or not. feeling sorry for someone does not merit him to touch her and lay down with her. he is just feeding you full of ****. i know. write me in about 5 years and see what he's doing next. if a man is like this, nothing, not even a gold pussy will stop him. i know. WAKE UP!
2006-10-26 00:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is the magic of drinking. he may be fooling around. He can always have the excuse again when drunk. take it seriously. No excuses for such behavior.
2006-10-26 00:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I think if she's a friend she should have said something to him. Like "stop that sh**) I'd be mad too.
2006-10-26 00:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats very disrepectful of him and your friend. I think I would find a new friend.
2006-10-26 00:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by sweetkooky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW thats just messed up!
2006-10-26 00:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being he was drunk, he probably thought she was you. It can happen. I think he loves you, still.
2006-10-26 01:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
seem,s like it ought to be her as well him you need to watch on this matter in my opion?
2006-10-26 01:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋