I have met a guy on net a few months back, we talked for some time, now i think I love him. No I am not rushing it. It took me a while to realise that. How is it possible to love someone u havent met or seen. Is there anybody like me?
2006-10-25 17:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by Rhea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sure there are thousands like you; the internet is a very powerful tool.
You may THINK that you are in love with a person after talking on line and sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings for months but the truth is: you have to meet and talk face to face to be sure - you may get a very different feeling.
Just remember, for your own safety, that people can lie very easily when, on the net, they can tell you any lie that they think you wan't to hear.
Don't agree to meet any net friend until you have called him on a land telephone line at least 3 times (and kept the number) and sent him an addressed greeting card by snail mail that he received.
Take care
2006-10-25 17:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by rentongal1958 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend on the net..we have been together for about 2 years now excluding the 6 months of friendship that we had before getting into a relationship. He did not see me , as in I did not even give him a photograph of myself even after we started the relationship , it was only when he to meet me after he graduated that he got the whole physical attraction towards me:)..we are planning to get married ...so yes answer you question, it is possible..:)
2006-10-25 17:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by i_am_not_me88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but it could also be very dangerous. You don't even really know this person . He will tell you what ever he thinks you want to hear. I would stay away from this situation or so called love. He might be a rapist or something else that could be harmful to you. Please take my advice and think long and hard before getting involved over the internet.God Be with you.
2006-10-25 17:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It's not love. But there are lots of people like you. People often think they fall in love with movie actors/actresses, but what they have is a crush, or infatuation...and they don't even know them. Feelings are tricky. You may think you know this person, but what you know is just a small part...what he has chosen to reveal. You can't speak with others who know him, or his family...or know how he reacts to situations outside of e-mail. You can be attracted to him based on what you do know, and you might be experiencing feelings...but you have probably been fantasizing about this relationship, which is OK too, but to call it love is to not understand love. Make sure your feelings don't jerk you around, and take you some place your brain doesn't want to go.
2006-10-25 17:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think without viewing or interacting with the person--Love is not at all possible.LOVE is such a pure thing and we should not lower its standard or values.One who has realises the Love in their life--they can know and can only answer this question.Love is God and even God bowdown their heads before real lovers.I actually respect Love--not love play.
2006-10-25 20:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi rhea yes its possible to luv sum1 thro the net...but the thing if r the feelins on the other side too...the guy in question does he also like u n serious abt u...ask him.... n if u think things can work out meet him....its very easy to get into a net relationship but u shld be careful...after u meet him n if he is serious abt u ask him to introduce u to his parents...m sure if a guy luvs u n wants 2 marry u he wont hesitate in taking this step...so make sure things r in order before u venture out....dnt keep it on the internet for long..luv is real when it happens in real life its for us to make ourseleves happy not on other.......all d best....raj
2006-10-25 19:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love on net, there is 90% persons only for time pass or make fun
if u will get love from next 10% that will be true.
but their is a Q. how u find that 10%?
ask what his view for love, if he / she will give some live answer it
means he is true.
2006-10-25 17:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by rohit p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is virtually impossible to truely love someone you have never met in the flesh. At this point, settle for a strong desire to meet and get to know this person.
2006-10-25 17:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE knows no barriers. Internet being no exception. so go for it. if destiny has it for u, u will definately find the right person. but ur action must go hand in hand with caution. all the best.
2006-10-25 17:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by lostyogi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, yes. But there are draw backs. Do I know the person?
2006-10-25 17:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋