with my perents relationship make me fear of havin a special person in my life. so what shall i do to overcome or start me up
2006-10-25 16:57:00 · 3 answers · asked by toff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everything takes TIME.. Go with your gut. If it feels right go with it. If not, then don't. Instincts are really something to be said about. If it doesn't feel like the right thing for you to do, check it out before you dive in. Remember Time.
2006-10-25 17:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you. I only ever knew my parents to fight etc. I have never been able to be affectionate with anyone or tell anyone I love them. I then met my partner and she has taught me much.
She understands that I don't want to end up as my parents. She gives me space when I need it. She understands if I am trying to hard at things it's because I don't want to go down the same path as my parents.
I think that once you start up with that special person you know they are the right person because they help you along with things. I don't think you ever overcome it. I'm into my third year with this relationship and my parents are still in the back of my mind. The fear may ease overtime.
2006-10-26 00:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents really flogged each other. One sibling and myself will not tolerate violence or abuse. One has been an abuser but has divorced and dealt with his problems, the other is still an abuser. So my odds are 50/50. It is your life now it is up to you to choose how you behave and what you make of your life.
2006-10-26 02:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋