I'm friends with three other girls and they're really active and loud but I'm quiet and shy. Lately they've been startin to ignore me a bit and I'm kind of worried that they'll ditch me altogether. What can I do? I try to b more louder and stuff but then its just not working.
2006-10-25 16:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by Shy_lil_angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont think you should change who you are, especially if it not in your nature to be loud! Maybe make sure your shyness isnt translating to insecurity though because that could repell them! They arent good friends if they ditch you just because your shy! If you have been friends with them this far then im sure there is something you all have in common! But maybe mention to them that they havent been hanging out as much with you and why that would be and if they are mature they will answer honestly! if there is something your doing thats annoying then y ou should try to change it, but not change who you are....if that makes sense :)
2006-10-25 16:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need a new group of friends. Alternatively you should just let them know you are not like them and that you are quiet. If they can't handle that it is their problem. I was like that in school and felt awkward but was still able to maintain a friendship - I did find other friends though that were quieter and divided my time between them.
2006-10-25 23:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If you change for other people then you have a tendency to lose yourself in the process. It goes with the old saying you can't make someone else happy unless you are happy yourself.
2006-10-26 00:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by MATLOCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some friends that are more like yourself
2006-10-25 23:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by hogan522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋