2006-10-25 16:26:04 · 35 answers · asked by Action 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well of course your girlfriend is going to want you to leave your wife, that's what girlfriends always want.
If sex is more important to you than a wife of 37 years then you need to just leave your wife now. Let her find someone who truly loves her for her and not just for sex.
2006-10-25 16:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sir you really sound like a mental patient. How on earth would you even so much as think about leaving your wife of 37 years for some idiot over the computer. When you married your wife that was until death do you apart. Take your marriage vows serious. Have some compassion on your wife if she's on meds. Have you tried to make sure the problem isn't you and not the meds? Maybe you should try to get her in the mood to want to have sex with you. For all you know this chick on the computer could be full of aids or a murderer, or sounds like a whore.
2006-10-25 16:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just said it's because of your wife's meds and so I'm sure your on-line girlfriend has heard this from you as well so I'd be wondering what kind of person this on-line girlfriend really is. What if you have problems somewhere down the line and can't perform will she find another man on-line to take your place. If the meds is causing the problem then I'd talk to her doctor about it. Maybe they can give her a different type. 37 years is a lot to throw away especially over a on-line girlfriend who I'm sure you really don't know the real person she might be. Not all are as they say they are.
2006-10-25 17:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to look at why your wife is on meds and when you got married you said for better or worse. I think you should try to make a romantic dinner or do some thing to make her want to have sex. I think it is unfair that you would consider leaving your wife for your girlfriend when you have only talked to this person on line. You have to work at a marriage and after 37 years you should know that it takes a lot to keep a marriage going. Talk to your wife and see if there is something that can be done. Good Luck
2006-10-25 16:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by FullofQuestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, a lot of married men would like to have a marriage that would at least reach half of your total marriage years. You should feel lucky with what you have. Now regarding your online girlfriend, dont listen to her ok. You know your wife more than your online girlfriend and it would be best if you stay out of your girlfriend. You have to understand that situations like these, your wife would greatly appreciate you being there for her. It's not just about sex you know. She might be bothered also by a lot of things, so please stop thinking about yourself and try to put yourself in your wifes shoes.
Besides, there's no descent girlfriend would suggest his so called lover to dump his wife simply because she is under medication. Think what type of person you are actually replacing your wife with. A descent woman would never say that, not unless she's not on her proper mind.Bottomline, your girlfriend does not respect the sacred vows of marriage people, and I'm assuming that you also don't.
What if your wife does the same thing to you, let's see how you would feel and react exactly.Use your real head, not the one in between your thighs.
2006-10-25 17:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you think of it like this. What if you were in an accident and paralized from the neck down and needed constant care? Do you think it would be alright for your wife to bail out on you after 37 years?
You can't put any weight into an online relationship. People only tell you what they think you want to hear to make you keep talking to them. You don't know people unless you are face to face with them, see their mannerisms and interact with them. Your online girlfriend could be a man pretending to be a woman. You would be a fool to throw away 37 years. Maybe you are a lousy lover and if you pleased your wife then she would want to have sex with you.
2006-10-25 16:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well was sex all you thought about when you married her? NO then you shouldnt care now.... and dump this online girlfriend cause you sure as f+uck cant have sex with a computer pay attenchion to your wife and sit her down and talk to her about it before you decided to throw it away for a piece of ***. There are other meds she could be on and turn on the charm becuase women like that and maybe she might just do it for you if she isnt intrested and stop thinking with the head below cause when its down and over with your heart will ache from what you did just to get some ***.
good luck i hope your decision is good and it doesnt ruin to many lives
2006-10-25 16:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother was on home dialysis for 5 years. She and my dad were married nearly 50 years. There was no sex, no intimacy because she was sick and embarrassed about the tube in her stomach. My dad never complained, never found someone else to fill the void. He loved her. If my father had left my mother and gone to an internet girlfriend or anyone else for that matter just because of her medical condition, I would have DISOWNED him instantly. The point I am trying to make here is this: what if the shoe was on the other foot? Would your wife of 37 years leave you? How incredibly selfish you are.
2006-10-25 16:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you leave your wife of 37 years just because some online girl wants you to then you got a problem.And shame on you for being dishonest to your wife. Remember the song Stand by your man?, Well same goes for you Stand by your woman! It's not her fault that meds cause that kind of reaction. and all your doing is adding fire to the flame and your gonna end up getting burned if you continue to be stupid. Mark my words.
2006-10-25 16:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your online girlfriend, may be an online boyfriend for all you know.
I would assume that after 37 years of marriage you have accumulated some love, respect, and material items together. Docs can help with that intimacy problem, regardless of meds. Maybe it will require you actually caring enough to treat her as you did in those first weeks/months together. Maybe you are the one who has something to do with her diminished desire....look to yourself.
Regardless, delete the supposed g/f. Your wife has given you her life! If you leave her, she should take you for all you're worth, Jerk!
2006-10-25 16:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm against it,you married her better or for worse what gives? hello she is on meds that she didn't ask to be like its her fault.have you ever talk to her about what can be done ,thats what doctors are for ,maybe he needs to be aware that the meds has taken a toll on being intimate,i'm sure there is something that can be done.your on line g/f ia s homewrecker what are you gonna do when you find out its not all that on the other side.you need to stay away from the so called g/f and work on your marriage.
37 years your gonna toss away over a bimbo please,give me a break think with your brain not with your p- - - -.
2006-10-25 16:36:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋