I was freinds with a girl in 5th grade then she moved, I'm 25 now. She might not even remeber me. I've found her home town and ph# using people search and a phone book. I hope to find out how she is doing and to see if she will be at my 5 yr class reunion.
2006-10-25 16:18:06 · 13 answers · asked by Joey B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No one is ever offended by being remembered, so she'll probably be pleasantly surprised. I understand your nervousness, though. You have the perfect excuse to call her, with your reunion approaching. Maybe you can tell a LITTLE white lie, just so you won't feel so vulnerable. Tell her you talked to some other classmates recently and her name came up. Then tell her you are trying to throw together a group night out with friends before or after the reuinion if she'd be interested. Even if no such plan exists, you can just say plans fell through. This should get you talking, and in no time, you'll probably wonder why you were so nervous. Now, stop thinking about it too much and PICK UP THE PHONE before you change your mind.
2006-10-25 16:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on if she's married, if so then you may need a good excuse to contact her - attending class reunions are good if she shows up. Directly calling someone up after 20yrs who may not even remember you can and likely will make them uncomfortable, so the better you plan the contact then the better for all concerned. Also see if she has an account on one of the social sites - good way for old classmates to re-connect.
2006-10-25 16:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that's by no skill extraordinary to love a guy you once considered as a chum. i have had crushes on adult men who were youthful than me and older than me... once the article of my affections develop right into a professor 30 years older than me! there is not any longer some thing incorrect with it and in case you imagine that there would properly be a authentic courting between you, I say bypass for it. basically attempt to undergo in concepts that the version between 29 and 19 is in hardship-free words 10 years.
2016-10-16 06:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First contact any of her freinds who were there with her and get to know about her and when you meet her definetly tell her how you went to the trouble of searching her in this big world .
2006-10-25 16:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by prince j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's being weird. You have to be careful though in how you present yourself over the phone. Introduce yourself (name, why you are calling) remember she may have gotten married and if her hubby picks up it will be weird. But like I said presentation is key, don't sound like a pervert, sound more like a business man. Goodluck!
2006-10-25 16:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird, i think its sweet...and it is a good opener to ask about the reunion attendance...call!!
2006-10-25 16:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by just lQQkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a weird thing to do.
If it walks like a duck...
good luck man.
(Sounds like you're 15yr class reuinion, if she moved when she was in the 5th grade, no?)
2006-10-25 16:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wait til the reunion, if shes there great, if not, call her.
2006-10-25 16:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by finebyfive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
use the thing called the cell phone, that isn't as weird as sending smoke signals or something like that...
2006-10-25 16:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say hello to her and introduce urself to she whether she still remember u o not... then invite her to join u guys..
2006-10-25 16:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋