i feel i can't give him everything when it comes to looks. im short and little overweight and 13 years older. i feel im up against the young skinny girls. i know this sounds insecure and i guess iam but i feel sick when someone great looking is around. i hate being this way. he is really cute and he could get anyone he wanted. i know i need to grow up but how do i get rid of that sick feeling.
2006-10-25 15:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dont that's something you live with
2006-10-25 15:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My EX BF like yours and he made me sick with his thought. We have often met each other daily at morning/lunch/dinner/night and talked on phone in working time whenever he wanted to make sure that i was in office, but that's not enough for him to be keep watching me every single day and every minutes. He get mad when i didn't answer his SMS immediately because i was busy at work. He tried to smell my body with the desire to detect any unusual smell of other guys on me. And terrible, if i get wet before he kisses me down there, he will think that was from my last sex with some guys few hours ago. And when his jealousy culminated, he ready to say many bad words and insult me for what i didn't do. His EX went for 1 of his friends, so maybe he think i will be do like her to him again. Besides, he had a bad childhood with separated parents and the mom beat him a lot when he was 5 or 6. I thought by my love for him i can change his sick mind and heath his handicapped heart, i really tried to help him for months. But, he can't change. I have to leave him because i can't love a guy who always doubt me and insult me like i am a sinful girl. In your case, if you've tried and he didn't change or he can't see how much you love him and faithful to him, The only way to get rid of him is leave him alone by telling him "there can't be love without trust and respect". Don't ruin your future with such guys. The psychiatrist could be the only one can cure him.
2016-05-22 14:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Radical Honesty, by Brad Blanton, PhD.
Read this book.
2006-10-25 15:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a fat load and a lot older. He is just doing you. You should let me take over for him. Dump him, I have some time and an opening toots.
2006-10-25 16:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just remember, you are the one that he wants to be with. He loves you for who you are.
2006-10-25 15:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRUST yourself first and then trust him
2006-10-25 16:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn him on byeeee
2006-10-25 16:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋