okay, so i met this guy a while ago, say, back in january - who is friends with my friends - and then re met him again the past weekend. it was really weird how well we connected all weekend together, hangin out and joking together.. practically inseperable.. only problem is, hes had a girl friend for 3 years.. nothing happened between us, it was strictly just friends, but everything felt so right.. i mean, i had never been that comfortable around someone before.. well maybe, but this was close haha.. anyways, he added me to msn and we text and stuff.. talk etc etc.. but it sucks cause i have a crush and he has a gf.. any suggestions?
PS: he told one of my best friends, and his, that he thought i was a really cool girl.. bringing it up, HIMSELF! okay haha.. done..
2006-10-25 15:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Just leave it at that. Friendship for now. Be patient. If it is meant to be, it will happen.
2006-10-25 16:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see what his gf thinks abou the two of you? she could be cool with it, or throw beer cans at him and break up with him ( or a combo of the two.. first the cool, then the cans). Don't do anything evil, but he needs to check...
Right now, think how rare it is to have a great friend.. he just happens to be a guy.
2006-10-25 22:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Snaredrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he HAS a gf and has been with her for 3 yrs, looks like they are pretty serious.I guess u cud be gud frenz with him.If they ever break up, maybe u cud try going out with him, but till then just stay frenz.
2006-10-26 03:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok crazy in love girl.........i wont advise like everyone to give him up.....firstly check out how is his relatonship with his girlfriend....Is he happy with her....If yes then either wait for him if u truly love him or leave him if u think someone else can love you more than he does.........and yeah if he is himself not happy with his girlfriend then start doing gestrures and throwing thoughts at him...like ask him to hang out with u at some romantic place like a beach or restraurant or something........and yeah please dont try to break-up a happy relationship....coz after that all three wont be happy so think about it.......
2006-10-25 22:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by lyonelboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooooooooooooooooooo typical. You like him because you can't have him. You're a dirty cheater. The text messaging stuff is inappropriate and you know it. Now go give the 10 points to the answer you wanted to hear-I know it's not mine.
2006-10-25 22:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rufus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please remove this question and post it in the correct category: Singles & Dating (Under Family and Relationships). This is NOT a question about women's studies.
No one knows whether he "likes" you; you'll just have to wait and see.
But don't burn any bridges.
2006-10-25 23:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 4get everything and be wif him....since u can take the effort to type out this whole story ...i think u like him more than ur present
2006-10-25 22:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by samdesign78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go dear, no one can build happiness on the grief of others.
2006-10-25 22:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you even stop to think you just made a real friend???
get your mind out of the gutter-everything has to be sex doesn't it?????????
2006-10-25 22:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋