When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting. Aries is rash and brash while Cancer is sensitive and emotional. Aries can certainly be emotional -- in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer. Even though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating. Aries, on the other hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal.
Cancer is the Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self. One great dynamic between these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they love. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength and bravery, like a knight in shining armor. Cancer also provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Sometimes they might build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly possessive, which can really grate on independent Aries. However, Aries can help by reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished. Aries really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon. Mars was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge head-on. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often internalizes emotions and feelings. Cancer can have intense, feminine energy and Aries can help them learn to release it. The Moon controls tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle). Cancer tends to be sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life instead of always rushing on to the next thing. Aries is a Fire Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done. Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries teaches Cancer to come out of their shells. But Cancer can be emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water dampening Aries's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can cause Water to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw. Aries and Cancer must talk openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained.
Aries and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs. Both Signs are initiators, but they have to learn to cooperate. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in charge through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation. Cancer tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield, so the Crab may have to accept giving in. What's the best aspect of the Aries-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're on the same team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together. Aries is out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back end. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs an equal relationship.
Hope that helps:-)
2006-10-25 21:58:07
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answered by Echo Forest 6
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Treat him to a day of relaxation. First start with breakfast in bed, if you can't cook pick him up a McDonalds big breakfast. Then take him WINDOW shopping and let him watch you try on clothes. Find a putt putt place and race him on go-carts and let him win. Pack up a lunch with sandwiches and chips and drinks, and have a private picnic in a secluded area. Don't let him leave w/o putting a smile on his face. Then go test drive new cars, like yall about to buy one, for fun only. Then cook him a dinner he'll never forget. After all that, give him the nicest and most erotic massauge that'll put him 2 sleep.
2016-05-22 14:29:19
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answered by Anonymous
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You - 18
Him - 33
Your President on DOB - Ronald Reagon
His President on DOB - Richard Nixon
I don't think finding out if your compatible in astrology is your biggest problem. Then again, if you actually believe in astrology that may be the first problem you may want to tackle.
2006-10-25 15:57:29
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answered by pokerkid80 1
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you are Aries march 21-April 20. your boyfriend is cancer June 22-July 22. These two signs are not compatible, but you shouldn't let "sun Sign" spoil your relationship.
2006-10-25 15:56:10
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answered by ~Lady scorpio~ 2
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In Astrology, NO. But in the bedroom and on the dancing floor YES !
2006-10-25 16:26:19
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answered by Sweet Dragon 5
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dont know bout the astrology but when u where born he was 15
2006-10-25 15:43:25
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answered by marynew8 3
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Wow thats disgusting you must really like em old or something. Does he have that old man smell to him yet?
All old and wrinkly...eww... Can't you do better than that or are you really ugly and dumb or something? If it is his money you are after then there are better, more respectable ways to earn it rather than sleeping around with old doochebags..such as robbing banks or mugging republicans.
2006-10-25 15:47:31
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answered by La Voce 4
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You can find that out in Yahoo astrology.
But he sounds like he is much too old for you at your age.
Pick some one within 3 years of your age.
Good luck.
2006-10-25 15:40:27
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answered by Aliz 6
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he's kinda old for you..watch out usually older guys just like barely legal girls to manipulate them and get some fresh booty. Astrology is a crock...good luck
2006-10-25 15:39:56
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answered by mrs michelle 4
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That's a big age difference. I'd be more worried about that than astrology.
2006-10-25 15:40:30
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answered by cmo83 2
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