In my frist period these girls talk things abo me and they dont really know me that much and I dont why do they talk thing what can I do?
2006-10-25 14:57:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, don't let them control your emotions. They are not your mother, father or child. Therefore, they have no emotional controls over you. This is a great time to learn that you can't control other people but you can control how you react to them. I would completely ignore them and don't even look at them. This may get a very bad reaction from them because they want a rise out of you. Do not give them the satisfaction. Now, if you are in a dangerous situation I would go to the Guidance Counselor and if she does nothing, go to the police. You need to keep notes of who does what and says what and when. That's just in case these mean girls start to get really nasty. Don't try to deal with it alone. If you feel in danger tell anyone that is in a position of authority and make sure your parents know. Hopefully just ignoring them will make them tire of you and go away to bother someone else. But don't take a chance if you feel in danger, really, tell the police and get their names on file so if they do something to someone, they will know who it was. OK. I will pray for you and you do the same. Ask God to protect you and lead you. Get some rest. Hopefully your not reacting to their remarks and what they say will be tiring to them. Good night.
2006-10-25 15:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know and understand that they are shallow, bratty girls with nothing more to do with themselves but make fun of other people's lives cuz they have no lives of their own. Don't listen or get upset over anything they say. It's not anything true or thoughtful. If it gets really bad you need to confront them and tell them to cut it out. Really be firm, and I'll betcha they'll stop it.
I wish you luck. Nobody deserves to be made fun of. I've been on both sides of the table...jerks are just cruel, and people who's feelings are hurt bad can have their lives changed forever. Stand up for yourself!
2006-10-25 15:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Corinne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is ignore them. Dont waste your time and energy worrying about what other people are saying about you. Dont get yourself into trouble in school. Its obvious that you are important to these people that they have to keep talking about you. If you must say something then let them know that you appriciate the fact that you seem to be important enough to them that they have to talk about you weather it be good or bad. That should shut them up. Good Luck
2006-10-25 15:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous of you for something. Consider it a compliment and give a huge smile the more they talk the more you smile cuz you know they want something you have , if you have a good attitude you may become friends at some point, and then you'll find out the truth. Keep your chin up and as i always say "SMILE, it confuses people!"
It truely does!
2006-10-25 16:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it, dont let it get to you too much, they may just jealous of you its old school advice but its still true to this day, when you hear them talking about you, just roll your eyes, not to their face but to yourself and say it doesnt bother me, they're all talk no action, if they keep doing it but worse in what their talking about then after class just stay a few minutes until everyone leaves, and talk to your teacher in private, and just ask him/her if they can move you to a different period or change your seating arrangement, cuz theyre going to stop eventually, just dont let it get to you that hard, im sure theyre just wanting attention so just try ignoring it for a while until the conversation gets more personal then talk to your teacher if he/she dont do anything go to your counsler and see what they can do, sry wish i had better advice and hope it works out for you
2006-10-25 15:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ... ask yourself why you care? Then come to the conclusion that they must be talking about you because you are the bomb, a person they would love to be just like. If they have that much to say about you ... you must be a Goddess to them *s*.
Don't let it bother you. Only small minds speak about others without intelligence.
2006-10-25 15:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Duchess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous of you for some reason. Are you prettier than them? Wear nicer clothes? Family have more money?
Don't worry about them. They are nothing to you and their opinions do not matter!
2006-10-25 15:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to them, and tell 'em to back off, and to leave u out of their mouths! warn them to just stop talking, or something will happen to them
2006-10-25 14:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about them with your friends.
2006-10-25 15:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to shut the hell up '-'
2006-10-25 15:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by drkjella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋