Some of ya'll know me, some of ya'll, well, don't. For those who don't know... I'm 12 and still looking for that perfect girl.
But know I got options.
A. Erin; she's now my best friend, and she says she'd go out with me. Problem is, her friend (and my almost sworn enemy), Chrissy (don't ask), wants me to give up. But I won't!
B. Julia; although she's a bit taller than me, and a bit older, she's still great. Problem is, she's got a boyfriend who now goes to Alternative MS for something stupid.
C. Allie; she stands by my side, is real nice, and is easy to know.
or D. Misty; she's real quiet in class, but I don't know her well.
Well, which one?
2006-10-25 14:45:52 · 20 answers · asked by ZZ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
So ya'll know,
1. Math is my favorite subject (see my math answers);
2. Chrissy says I'll never get to first base (if ya know what I mean);
3. Erin's taken too;
4. Misty, well, I don't know her;
5. I got multiple crushes. It happens!
2006-10-25 14:53:53 · update #1
Coffee: I ain't retarded.
It's just that there are so many decisions. Plus, only Erin likes me beyond a friend.
2006-10-25 15:11:21 · update #2
Now, would it help to say my 12 year old friends gone out with people since they were, oh, I don't know, 11?
2006-10-25 15:55:52 · update #3
C and just to let you know us 12 yr. old girls don't exactly like to be "options". if a guy liked me, i would want to be the only girl he would think about. good luck
2006-10-25 14:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd choose the one that I could talk to without getting angry or defensive. Someone who is easy to talk to and easy to know might seem boring, but if you stick with her long enough, you'll find you're finishing each others sentences, going places together all the time and perhaps getting closer in the future. I haven't seen 12 in a long time, but that's just what I'd do if I was trying to choose between several possibilities. Also, there is the random factor of chance that often puts monkey wrenches into the best laid plans of people who think too hard about stuff like this. Don't overanalyze and the answer will come to you in its time. Something will happen to show you which one you really want to be with.
2006-10-25 23:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Black Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Zach R.
I was all set to write you an answer and read the other answers first. There was a lot of good advice and opinions with reasons for the opinions given. Then I read the comments and advice and the answer from JA. It summed up what I thought too. You sound like a good young man with several friends he likes and who he finds attractive - nothing wrong with that. You probably like different girls for different reasons. I agree with the answer that said get to know girls that you are comfortable with - people that you enjoy talking to and that enjoy your company. It is a lot more fun to have a relationship with someone that you have things in common with rather than just the girl you think is the prettiest, most popular, etc. You are starting such a neat time of your life - you are going to be a teen - confusing time of life, but also a time to grow and have fun and learn about yourself and what you want out of life. Surround yourself with good friends who care about you. The right girl to spend time with will come along. Treat her like she is really special. I hope you enjoy your years as a teenager.
2006-10-26 00:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by kathy s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best answer is to be friends with others who bring out the best in you.
I know it seems like you've been a teenager forever, and you are ready for dating, and know so much more than your parents knew at your age, but please consider - just for a moment an older, and maybe wiser, person's point of view.
I have not met anyone my age who really regrets not having more dating experience at an earlier age and I've met plenty of adults who regret getting to involved too fast when they were young.
My daughter is your age and not dating. Our plan (she & I talk together about all this), is that she will get together with friends and go out in groups -- and hold off on one-on-one dating for a while. If you can have even 5 or 6 really true friends who all respect eachother and hang out as a group, you will learn a lot of social and emotional skills that will help you mature into a young man who really knows who he is and what he wants instead of a young man with a lot of regrets.
I believe God loves you and I want to respect and be proud of the teenagers around me - even if we disagree about how I want you to succeed in life I want to be on your side> Find trustworhty adults around you to guide you, and become a mentor when you are older -- knowledge and wisdom are power!
2006-10-26 00:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by JA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C sounds good... But i really think you should be taking the time out to figure this out yourself... they are not animals that are waiting to be adopted. Think to yourself who do you feel most comfortable with? Who makes you smile? And puts butterflys in your stomach? Who will love you for you? Dont just think about which one will put out... Thats just wrong. And i would def stay away from the one with the boyfriend...
P.S. Your only 12... Your probably going to meet 20 perfect girls before you even reach the age of 18...
2006-10-25 22:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by coffeejitterzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know Misty I bet under all that quietness she is a nice girl and also C
2006-10-25 21:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 12 and bound to have alot more girlfriends in your life.So don't be so serious you like them all in different ways so whats stopping you from spending time with all of them and having fun.
2006-10-26 06:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you pick the one that actually wants to be with you. Or maybe you shouldn't be worrying about relationships since you are only 12.
2006-10-25 22:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 so I know how it feels when somebody tries talking you out of going with someone else, but i think you should try it with allie. Good luck pimpin
2006-10-26 13:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by purplemajesty@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erin all the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It sounds to me like you know her well enough to make it work. Your comfortable with her.
She likes you too.
Who care about Chrissy? Its not her issue, belive me, you can ignore her
2006-10-25 22:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by crazyperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋