she's 13! it's terrible, and she cries all the time. what can i do to comfort her?
2006-10-25 14:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow how old are you?? Tell her that there are abortion centers if that cant happen the department of children and families can help her finacially as well as allow her to go to therapy. she is going to go through alot. I am 23 and it is still hard. Tell her to stay in school they have child day care for that and as soon as she is old enough she should get a part time job. she needs to have a little bit of a social life but dont let that get in the way of raising her daughter. Oh and put that father on child support he is just as much responsible. and god bless her casue its going to be hard
2006-10-25 14:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by tamara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off does her parents know ... if they don't they need to know ...See if they know this is going on with her and they can get her help ,,, talk to the school and see if they can help ... as a friend just be a friend to her. she is going threw a hard time and people are and might be really cruel to her... I hope it works out for her and you just being concerned shows your a true friend
2006-10-25 21:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by just a mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point there is absolutely nothing you can do to help her except be her friend.
If she hasn't already told her parents encourage her to do that like right now. She's really going to need them and the sooner she tells them the better.
Poor child.
2006-10-25 21:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her and be a good true friend and have a shoulder for her to cry on she is going thru a lot with being a early teen mom and being pregnant
2006-10-25 21:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by alyshiapeanut 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A true comfort for her would be knowing that people are going to be there for her and that she is not alone.
2006-10-25 21:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by hartovalion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend ,,, try and get her to go for crisis counselling << if you are older than her be wise and be there for her ,, and be there to point her in the right direction for help >> if she refuses you have to pull rank as a friend ; she will understand ; why you did what you had to do >>> which is to tell a responsible trustworthy adult , perhaps family .. the damage is done what can they do now????
2006-10-25 21:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
always listen to her, comfort her, try to be understanding, she's going through alot right now and her emotions are going to get the best of her.
2006-10-25 21:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her into some counseling. She's going to need it. Heck, she probably already needs it. Good luck. I wish her the best.
2006-10-25 21:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by yblur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her talk to her support her. tell her it'll all be OK. that you're there for her cuz u care.
2006-10-25 21:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno.. wut can u do 4 my daughter?
2006-10-25 21:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋