i have a friend who i have been having sex with for about 6 months now, so far it has just been sex, and nothing else... when we both started this neither one of us wanted any type of realationship. so far it has been good! a few months ago he told me that he was thinking about asking this woman who he works with out on a date. i was fine with that, but then he asked me to come over and have one last fling with him, so i did, and we have been having sex weekly ever since this afternoon i talked to someone who i havent seen for a while, and they just happen to work with my friend. i found out that he had been try'n to date this woman but she didnt want anything to do with him, but now she is up for a promotion and admits to fellow workers that she is useing him to get the promotion. they suposeally have just kissed and not had sex. and she is telling everyone that she just wants the promotion. im just wondering if i should tell him or just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the sex???
2006-10-25 14:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by imbummin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
from experience keep ur mouth shut it might seem hard to watch him being used but he'll think ur just being jealous and itll work out bad on u only tell him if he asks cus if he asks hes thinking it himself
2006-10-25 14:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by phil b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the sex, if you tell him he will think you are bitter and jealous about losing him. Trust me most guys have an elevated self pride that makes them think they are right ALL the time. If she is just using him, oh well, if not then they might end up in a good relationship.
2006-10-25 21:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are just a F*uck buddy. Tell him what you heard and let the chips fall where they lie. By the way are you still gonna diddle him if he gets another girlfriend or does it turn you on know he wants someone else? Just asking.
2006-10-25 21:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, What a predictament. HMMMMM,, UHHHHH... HMMMMM... Geese........ I would want to know! This is a toughy lady. If I was in the situation I would Want you to tell me. HE might think you are jelious, but hopefully he will search out what is going on at work in a incognito way, see she is a B**ch, and then he will thank you later.
2006-10-25 21:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by mymack79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on wether you like the guy behind the great sex enough to tell him. are you looking for more then sex, because if you are, what have you got to lose.
2006-10-25 21:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by alamap61032 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your mouth shut. It may not be true. If it is true and you repeat it though, it may seem as if you are jealous.
Better to be safe and not say anything.
2006-10-25 21:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... ... ... Well I'll be d***ed!
Are you telling the truth?
Well, do what you think's best.
2006-10-25 21:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋