saying that she **** him in my house and they are still messing around but he's saying no she is saying yes i dont but i really believe her but i want to believe him because i will never think that he will do anything like that to hurt me good as i been to him she was suppose to have an abortion by him our second year talking but i look at it this way is that females will tell you anything sometimes to **** up a good relationship but sometimes they want it can be the truth
2006-10-25 13:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
has she ever been in your house before that u know of for sure? one way to find out is ask her what your house looks like on the inside. if she can tell u what your house looks like then yea shes been in there.
2006-10-25 14:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the offensive and tell your boyfriend that you are going to start hanging out with your single girlfriends who go to clubs and you are on the market to meet other guys. If he is faithful then he will distance himself from the female that he supposedly is messing around with. I am a male and believe he has been for such accusations don't surface without some truth. This I do know from knowing how and why females say such things having 4 sisters and now on my third marriage which I can tell you does have merit. Sorry for the heartache but I know that no man would ever admit his infidelities towards his woman and will deny it and take it to the grave. There are better fish out there but not many. Be strong and good luck.
2006-10-25 14:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by cantgofrg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now and there is this chick that does the same thing
after we got together is when they met and we were in a long distance relationship at the time. she would IM me saying mean **** all the time and she told him to come over to **** her cuz her parents werent home and ****. she is a few years younger than him and she is always ****** up on drugs and i knew and he knew that she liked him. ive heard a couple different stories and its hard to beleive anything i hear now. sometimes even tho it happened a couple years ago i remember it and it really makes me wonder all over again. we both are from different states and when he moved to my state and then go back to visit his family he would go visit her and then i wouldnt know till 3 weeks later. its really confusing but i know what u are going through and if u want to talk just send me an email or something and then we can talk on messenger. i know that she tried alot to **** us over and he would just say that shes a friend but a friend doesnt do that to a "friends" relationship
2006-10-25 13:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe that. Not all females are out to do that....
You know they have a history and sometimes no matter how good you are to him, there will always be a connection...
Also, if he is doing this at your house set up a trap. Tell her to prove it. Tell her the next time she is at your house call you and catch him,,,,do anything....just don't dismiss her allegations, be a detective because if he is sleeping with her and lying to you who is to say he wont do it with someone else...Then you are at risk.
Also, get an AIDS test...not for him, but for you!
2006-10-25 14:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by robin dupree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't always assume girls are lying ... there must be some truth there ... i would seriously talk with your boyfriend ... sounds like he may be playing around. women will say stuff to break up a relationship but most times they do it because there's something between the 2 people.
2006-10-25 13:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to check your man im telling you men are like snakes in the grass dont put anything past him no matter how much you want to trust him, please im telling you men been doing this for years, they will throw a rock and hide their hand behind their backs, keep a good eye on him , trust me he could very well be the one who is keeping this mess going, trust me ive been there, he is a M-A-N, please BEWARE!!!!
2006-10-25 14:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know what to tell you your love is making you blind...you need to get the two of them together and then ask questions because if you are asking them questions when they are not together you are only going to get lies.
2006-10-25 13:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by ... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. If you feel in your heart you have a good man, and he's not messing with her, then don't let her get to you.
2006-10-25 13:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what you better use your brain now not your heart coz it is for your own sake....tell him that your not the one who really complete you...but ofcoures he is still be part of your life....from the past...enjoy your life there are many better guys waiting for you....
like what i do i just collect then i select...
god bless and good luck
2006-10-25 14:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by tisay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, make him jealous and he will come back to you, get a guy friend to help you and maybe the other girl will like him instead.
2006-10-25 14:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋