Is this really love or a lust I have been dating a guy for a 1 1/2 and he pays more attention to sports or his computer then me it never use to be like this what is wrong with our relationship HELP????
Don't get me wrong I don't care that he watches or plays sports but I want to be #1 in his life not sports....
2006-10-25 13:43:14 · 6 answers · asked by sarahpenn_2003 1 in Sports ➔ Fantasy Sports
your never gonna be #1 guys need their own space just keep that in your thoughts
2006-10-25 13:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by jesusthemessiah44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't nag him about it, but I'd talk to him about what you're feeling. Try to work out some expectations about time spent together and time spent on the computer and sports. Then try to stick with them. If he cannot reasonably negotiate that, then dump the schmuck. He's only into himself and is taking you for granted. See how he deals with it when you're not around.
BTW, did you actually expect decent relationship advice in the fantasy sports section? You'll be lucky if you're only mocked in 90% of the answers. You might do better in the relationship section.
2006-10-25 16:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by HL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend never understood the fantasy football, the gambling, the golf, the hunting, the beer, Blazing Saddles, the copy of Penthouse under the sink, the guy's night out, the occasional "wingman" duties, the CDs not heard on Top40, the big bowls of chili in the winter and the dutch ovens that followed.
my bad, did I say girlfriend...I meant "ex" girlfriend...I traded her for Payton Manning in a keeper league.
the beagle I have loooooves all these things...he does get kinda needy when I'm on the fantasy football though!
2006-10-25 15:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by tinman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing differently now than before?
Is it that he really does his computer & sports that much, or are you being a clingy, needy witch?
You both have to have some interest other than each other or you'll go crazy.
2006-10-25 13:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my boyfriend for a year and his cars and sports came before me. eventually i got sick of it and gave him the ultimatum, he is now my husband of five years. he still watches sports and plays with his cars but it is limited to so many hours on sundays. its all about compromising.keep perservering and compromise with him and you should have a good outcome. good luck, hope it goes the way you hope for.
2006-10-25 13:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by stimpy792003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of know how you feel...my girlfriend has me at the bottom of her list...myspace and her drug addict friends come first before me. Is there hope for us out there?
2006-10-25 13:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Thadd1us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋