enough to end the relationship? Is there any safeguard from this kind of behavior or is it normal?
2006-10-25 13:37:17 · 5 answers · asked by gayle j 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hello!! :o) Does HE think HE has a 'problem with lust'? Or is that how you perceive it?! Generally speaking - men and women relate to sex differently. Women tend to believe that sex equals love. So it's understandable that many women would be offended if their 'man' is thinking about having sex with someone other than her. But to a man - sex is NOT love. It's just sex. So even though a women might assume that her mans sexual interest is a threat their relationship - most men just don't see it that way at all. Many women [not saying you - necessarily] are 'shocked' and 'hurt' to discover that their boyfriend/husband is still masturbating. "Aren't I enough?", they cry. NO - you are not!! But then - getting back to the differences between how man and women relate to sex - it's NOT about 'being enough'. That all said.... and without judging your 'date' or throwing some guilt trip on him... [Because you're in no position to do so] ASK him just how important internet porn is to him. And if he says, "Yes - it is important", and then asks YOU if it bothers you... let him know how you feel. But NEVER SAY something like, "IF you really loved ME then you would do what I WANT you to DO - and become who I want you to become!!" Relationships are all about respecting what matters to one another. And what matters to you is not more important than what matters to him. [And visa-versa - of course] Consider all of this an opportunity to TALK about how each of you feel. And then decide if who he is - is someone you want to have in your life. Have a great day!! Craig!! :o)
2006-10-25 23:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your man is looking at and lusting over women on the Internet then he really is not into you. he would rather have a cold hard screen of degrading pictures of low self esteem women that he can not touch or touch him, then look at you, touch you, be touched by you. a warm soft real body. i want to be with a man that is into me. I deserve much better than that and I think that you do to. Now it's time that you believe that you deserve better than that. any man that prefers pictures over a women is not a man worth keeping.
2006-10-25 20:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
since he likes looking put on a show give him something to look at but if he is trying to hook up online might be time to bail
2006-10-25 20:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HONEY,I LIKED WHEN MY MAN LOOKED AT OTHER WOMEN,WE HAD A VERY LUSTFUL RELATIONSHIP!AND HE DID IT TO GET WHAT HE WANTED,'CAUSE HE KNEW IT TURNED ME ON!!!"SICK AND TWISTED"?MAYBE...BUT WE WERE A VERY SEXUAL COUPLE...'TIL HE DIED IN A MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENT!!!DAMN...I ALWAYS THOUGHT WE WOULD DIE IN BED!!!OH,WELL...LET HIM LOOK,LOOK WITH HIM!USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!
2006-10-27 04:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
security
Insecurities eat away at a relationship. I say if you are secure in who you are these things wont bother you, if you are not then they will its just as simple as that
2006-10-25 20:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋