my cheater friend,who was like an angel in my eyes,me and him been friends for 6yrs,i trusted him alot?but he always used to talk to me naughty like oh nice legs i wish i can ... etc. and if i tell him dont talk to me like that he would just say come on we r friends i knew it's not normal for a friend 2 say that but i just didnot want 2 loose him coz of a such a reason,after a while he started talkin 2 my sis on phone sometimes but that's after i give him the premission & 1 day he invited my sis out but i didnot allow that 2 happen i felt so jealous,i want him to be my friend only but it seems like my sis heard it but she let it go,1 day we made love (it was my first sex),after dat day he stoped phonin me & i knew that he was usin me just to get wat he wants(just to sleep wiv me)my problem now is he's doin da same to my sis,my sis is young and inoccent,&i cant tell her dont answer his calls coz she will think am still jealouse,i really dont want my sis 2 be used
2006-10-25 13:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell your sister exactly what happened like you did us.
2006-10-25 13:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholas C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Your sis what happened to you It may stop her it may not. A girl that I know left her boyfriend and he wanted to go with her sis. so she told her sis the guy was a flake the sis still let him do her. Just warn her and tell her how he did you and dropped you and he is going to do the same to her. If you have to lie to save your sis do it. Tell her he said that after he did you he was gonna do her too that's y you left him. Don't over do it tho. she will think you are jealous in fact she will feel really good thinking she is sexy enough to take him away from you. You could also tell him that if he mess up your sister you will pay someone to kick the living shitt outta him.
2006-10-25 13:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right in wanting to protect your sister since she's young and impressionable. You don't mention your parents, but I wonder if they should be told that he's "preying" on your sister? And that's what he is...a predator...Talk to your sister and tell her that this guy uses girls and that he'll break her heart. And- if she's under age and even if he's only a few years older, it could be considered statuatory rape. You might want to tell the guy that too to scare him a little... There's nothing like the threat of legal action to make a "user" stop their behavior...
2006-10-25 13:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, i comprehend precisely the way you sense. i became the comparable way in severe college. (i'm in college now) adult males found out n informed me how large that made me and alot of them needed me to return over and hangout or flow to an arcade and play some video games. don't get freaked questioning it's going to exchange into adult males maximum suitable pal. cuz there are a number of the thank you to could a video sport hangout additionally girly. if theres a guy you like and your enjoying video games with them, get alittle flirty and aggressive, it's going to truly prepare you are able to hold with the lads yet be a girly lady too. and alot of adult males see that by way of fact the main suitable of the two worlds. my first severe college bf became a guy that informed me i became cool reason i performed video games. weren't jointly now out of hs yet have been nevertheless the main suitable of buddies. and alot of the different adult males needed as much as now as nicely. maximum suitable of large fortune.
2016-10-16 10:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents what is going on.They are always there to solve problems.Otherwise talk to your sister what is going on.She might understand.She sounds really nice and innocent.She and you can probaly figure something out.Do you like him?If not,simply dump him.Your life cant go on this way.
2006-10-25 13:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him kow that it is a major problem that he is talking to your sister and if he doesn't give the right response tell your lil sis wat happened between you and him. Yall seem close so she will get where you are coming from.
2006-10-25 13:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur sis dat she needs to be careful b/c u dont want her to get the treatment u got from him and tell her ur not jealous just tell her to watch out
2006-10-25 13:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by iluvmypuppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have caller ID? if you do block him! if you dont talk to him! If that doesn't work tell your sis your not jealous you just don't want her to be used!
2006-10-25 13:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister about what happend between you and your x-friend (not as explicit) and say that you don't want the same thing to happen to her.
2006-10-25 13:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by roman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your sister what has happened and explain that your not jealous but only trying to protect her because you love her. im sure she will understand. good luck xx
2006-10-25 13:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by emz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋