my boyfriend doesn't like solving problems at the moment and I do. what shoul i do?
2006-10-25 12:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is a good policy to live by... and more ppl should... i would explain to him why you feel this way... do not be surprised if he never understands tho... it does not bother most ppl... so, to compromise, ask him if YOU could state ur case to him, he just listens to you and then you will feel BETTER about the anger or even be able to let it go, from your side anyway... God bless
2006-10-25 12:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, 'never go to bed angry' is a popular saying and I'm sure that if you say that, he will recognize this important phrase many couples use. It is also good however to give each other space so that tension between the two of you can die down. Yeah, I know some people like to resolve things immediately, but a times just let things go and let him have his space - sometimes it's better that way.
2006-10-25 19:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, that would be hard to answer. You just need to tell him your reasons and explain your feelings. I don't like to go to bed angry and my bf knows this. We talk anything out before we go to sleep and kiss and make up. If he loves you then he should respect your feelings and try to compromise some. Good luck!
2006-10-26 14:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend believed in this saying and now i do... Even though many nites he still went to bed mad for dumb reasons... I think that every nite u should go to bed thankfull that u have someone who loves you as much as u love them the same goes for ur kids always let ur kids know u love them.. What if
"Tomorrow Never Comes"....
2006-10-25 20:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by mmmgirl62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly the same way! I want the issues resolved so I can go to bed peacefully. I think guys need more of a "time out" so they can make their head stop being irrational.
2006-10-25 19:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,it is best not to.Ask him if it is alright with him if you too can talk about what ever the problem is before you go to bed.If he says no then there is not much you can do,except pray for yourself and him.Ask God to help you work through the anger you have and to help him be able to talk to you when things are not going right.
2006-10-25 20:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always good to resolve things as soon as possible so u don't end up fighting about the same thing over and over again in the future.
2006-10-25 20:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him that if "we "go to bed angry, one of us might not wake up.and i would hate to live with the thought that we never knew how much we loved or meant to each other. or you as a person who knows what it means should just kiss him goodnight and tell him you love him. and you know in your heart that if he is angry he' ll have that kiss and "i love you to sleep on.if he will not let you kiss him, kiss a finger and put it on his brow. same thing.
2006-10-25 20:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him how you feel. You know, we never know when our last day is... so it's best to make up before going to bed. You never know if you'll wake up the next morning. Tell him that... tell him you need that reassurance and comfort knowing that you've made up before bed.
2006-10-25 19:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compromise and promise to pick up the discussion as soon as possible the next day.
Sometimes if you don't get your rest you can really screw things up the next day.
2006-10-25 19:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋