why am i always attracted to the smae kinda guys looks wise?
2006-10-25 12:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The build is something that is commonly found attractive. Some people will be influenced by fashion, so heroin chic became popular in limited circles. Some girls like the huuuuge muscles, because they are freaks and they've over-associated muscle with power, when we know things are a little more subtle - social ability for instance ;o)
Generally speaking, though, a healthy looking guy with some strength and good muscle showing is, genetically speaking, a safe bet and is also more likley to be able to protect young. Most women will find that attractive, even if it's not actually 'cool' in their social circle. We're not talking the self-obsessed macho, but the man who looks like he earned his biceps lifting heavy things for a living and generally being rugged...
The height thing is more personal, but again, a taller guy is a safe bet for protecting the young. Too tall, though, and you lose the bond somewhat. So, well built, healthy, atheletic, a few inches taller, a strong arm around you, kind eyes and a warm smile (that only you get to see) usually wins the day. In fact it always does. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
2006-10-25 19:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone has a certain trait they like.
For me for awhile it was girls with short dark hair and slightly tanned skin. Then it was pale redheads. Then it was pale brunettes.
You have basically picked the physical traits you prefer and apply those to the men you want to be attracted to. Yes you can subconsciously make yourself attracted to certain characteristics.
We do it with everything from what style of car we like, what type of jewelry we like, to music,to movies, etc.
Everyone has different tastes some change and some do not.
That's the way we're programmed.
2006-10-25 19:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jaysis that's scary, you just described me. Regardless we all have a type honey, it's chemistry. I've always wanted to go out with a blonde but for some reason I always date brunettes with brown eyes. What can you do. Just go with the flow and enjoy it I guess
2006-10-25 19:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people are attracted to different body types. Do you find you think actors who like this look better than others? Believe it or not, people in our family influence who we find attractive and what your personal philosphy is.
2006-10-25 19:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by scienceguy888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys with a sense of adventure, a sense of humour and a brain. The way they look is unimportant.
2006-10-26 03:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you live in the real world and realize the "okay" guys are the ones worth dating
2006-10-25 19:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by MellyK1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause u r picky like me. if i can't find a guy i like, i won't settle for any less.
u r awesome!
2006-10-25 19:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant have me then im totally the opisite to what u like
2006-10-25 19:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you like fat dwarves ok thats pc but you probably lost me ten points cheers lol
2006-10-25 19:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by belter777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like that too...why worry, just enjoy!
2006-10-25 19:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Glenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋