Its not me, Its for my friend!
He drinks all the time, knew something was wrong, when ya that close you know, you can feel it,sex was even different . Hes been gone for two days. Ignoried her calls, took her 580 mls from fl to tenn, and back, just for her to find out two days later hes with someone else! Hes lied saying he wants to move home with her and settle down getting a job. But went back to his slut, who apperently has to be drunk to be with her. Shes confused on what she wants to do. She doesnt want to cheet, thats outa the question, she thinks she should ignore him, but too attatched, need real answers, not shallow or hurtful. True people with real experiences! Please and Thank you!
2006-10-25 12:39:59 · 7 answers · asked by violettelillyrose81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, I am sorry for your friend..and sorry that you have to watch something like that happen to someone you care about. I would definitely tell her that yeah she may love or care about him, but obviously he doesn't love and care about her. He is cheating, drinking excessively, and lying. If this guy is older (like not a teenager or 21 year old) he is set in his ways. Theres not much but therapy that is going to help or change him. Just ask her if this is what she wants to deal with the rest of her life. And remember to let her know that its always easier to let go sooner than get even more wrapped up in the situation..its going to be harder. With cheating men don't understand that its not only a girls emotions you are hurting..theres other factors like STD's he could bring home to her, and what if he even got the other girl pregnant? Its just causing more issues staying with him than leaving. Of course it will hurt at first, but the pain will slowly go away and she will meet someone that can treat her better. This way she knows what to look for in a man, and can find a good one!
2006-10-25 12:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by valleygirl1828 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has serious problems! If your friend stays with him she will only get hurt more. Seriously, she needs to stay away from him and get into therapy so she can figure out why she would want to be with a guy so insensitive to her needs. Were her parents mean to her? Someone was mean to her or he gives her something she thinks she can't get anywhere else. Thats usually why a chick stays with someone like that. She deserves better.
2006-10-25 12:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, being someone who's spent way more time in a relationship with a liar/cheater than I should have, I would say your friend should just cut her losses and end it. In the long run, I am sure that's probably the best thing she can do.
2006-10-25 12:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Candice C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 23:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell your friend that it is time to move on
I may not have experience with that sort of thing but I hve freind who have gone throw the same ***** * with their hus
one of them who decided to stay is now bottling AIDS (FOR THE PAST 14 YEARS) Love your friend and help her realized the truth
a loser is a loser nothing will change
so she must move one
Tell her to be strong
2006-10-25 12:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ouch. i feel really sorry for her. the guys a jerk. she needs to just make it impossible for them to communicate. if they do, she'll just get sucked back in.
2006-10-25 12:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by mr. answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
D U M P H I M.
2006-10-25 12:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋