I remember hearing this old song went something like, If u cant be with the 1 u love then love the 1 ur with. What I need help with is, I'm with this very Sexy lady, she is alot of fun! And some of u out there could see me as a loser, But I still have very deep feelings for my ex, Her name was Mandy. I just want to know am i the only person who has had this happen and how do I continue with my life. Any help is better then trying to do this on my own!!
2006-10-25 12:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Bananas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well ur obviously not over your ex and its not very fair on the very sexy lady to not be completely in the relationship with her and be wanting someone else at the same time.. you need to move on if theres no hope of getting back with mandy..
2006-10-25 12:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in 3 long relationships and one thing that I have learned is that you will ALWAYS love your ex's. A lot of people have bad break-ups to where they feel like they hate eachother and have done eachother wrong. But the love for that other person will never go away. But I can say theres definitely a difference in loving someone and being IN LOVE with that person. I would definitely give the new lady in your life a chance. Things always fall into place. If mandy doesn't realize how much you love her, she is still going to move on, there is no reason for you to hold on to it if she doesn't realize it. Let someone else like or love you. You never know what you could be passing up! Good luck!!!
2006-10-25 19:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by valleygirl1828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just haven't gotten over Mandy yet. that's all. no big deal. you just haven't healed. don't worry about it. look....i am sure you had some great times with Mandy. we don't stick around with people that make us miserable 100% of the time. you and Mandy aren't together because that relationship was broken. this new person, you may be using to hide your pain. so think it over. learn to let go of Mandy. you will be fine. i promise.
2006-10-25 19:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty tough to grieve for an x when you're plunking a lady. No, you'e not alone and if you get yourself to a singles group that helps the newly single work through being single it might help.
2006-10-25 19:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without more information about how/why you broke up with your ex, and just what makes this new girl so much "fun"... I can't help.
But if you don't have the option with trying to work things out with the ex...... MOVE ON
2006-10-25 19:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as this sux, there's a reason she's ur ex. first, ur not a loser, 2nd u might look into therapy cause u seem to have a problem w/ depression & low self-esteem. u might need meds, too.
2006-10-25 19:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still in love with my ex and none of my relationships after him have worked out because of it...you can't force yourself to love someone else when your heart is really with her.
2006-10-25 19:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by italiana2683 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obviouse shes not what you want i fell in love with the guy im with and other guy crosses my mind.
2006-10-25 19:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by glitterface_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋