Are there any side effects of anal sex?

Answer 1

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Introducing Anal Sex


Anal sex is one of the most taboo forms of sexual play commonly practiced. Long a source of societal shame and discomfort, many people feel the anus is off-limits so it's embarrassing for some people to admit they like having their anus touched or stimulated. But there's really no reason to be embarrassed. Anal play has long been a part of sexual practice for over a third of Americans, including homosexual and heterosexual men and women, both partnered and alone. Most people don't realize that anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal play; stimulation with fingers, toys and tongues is far more common, partly because the prostate, the rectum and the rim of the anus are all rich sources of nerve endings. Gentle stimulation of these areas can be very pleasurable.

Talk to your partner about anal sex and anal play. Find out his or her feelings on the subject. If he or she is adamantly opposed, back off for awhile. Try giving your partner a book on the subject. After he or she is better informed, your partner may be more willing to discuss integrating anal play into your relationship. Approach the subject carefully, and be very aware of your partner's feelings. Many women are embarrassed about anal sex, but have been longing to try it for a long time. Likewise, many men are extremely eager to experiment with this new form of play (as receivers and givers), yet remain convinced their partners would never consider it. Talk to each other about your desires. You may have more in common than you think!

Anal Play
Once you're both comfortable with the idea, start slowly. Try different kinds of lubrications and find one you both like. Then start with gentle touching. If you feel uncomfortable or tense, stop for a few minutes and try to relax until you're ready to experiment further. Many people enjoy having a finger slowly inserted into their anus. Your partner might try twirling his or her finger just inside the sphincter muscles, or a gentle shunting motion in and out of the anus. You might want to progress to rimming, a form or oral sex performed on the anus, or experimentation with dildos and other anal toys. Always use lots of lubrication and never insert anything into your anus that doesn't have a flared end -- the last thing you want is a trip to the emergency room!

Anal Intercourse
Many men and women are curious about anal sex but are scared about comfort and safety issues. If you are curious, the following steps will ensure you have a safe and enjoyable experience.

Use a condom. Never go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing carefully (and changing condoms) in between.
If the thought of some fecal matter is horribly repulsive to you, the receptive partner can use an enema beforehand.
The anus has no natural lubrication, so you'll need to use plenty of lubricant.
Relax and go slow. Encourage the receiving partner to take deep breaths and communicate his or her feelings aloud.
Start with external stimulation from something small, like a finger or a small vibrating toy.
Once the receiving partner has relaxed and begun to feel aroused, insert the finger or toy gently into the anus, letting the anal sphincter accommodate the object.
Gently move the object in a shallow circular motion. The two rims of the sphincter are rife with nerve endings, so this small motion should feel good. If it doesn't, stop or do something different.
When you are both ready to move on to something larger, consider using a small dildo or vibrator first. This will allow greater control and may make things easier for the receiving partner.
Once you are ready to introduce a penis or larger sex toy into the anus, slow down and proceed with caution.
Allow the receptive partner to set the depth and pace.
Breathe and concentrate on relaxing your anus. Keep communicating.
Don't neglect stimulation of other parts of the body. Clitoral or penis stimulation combined with anal play can be quite exciting.
Stop immediately if there is discomfort or if either partner says he or she wants to stop.
This should be an enjoyable experience. If it is not, stop.
Anal Toys
Anal sex can be enjoyed in various forms by both men and women of all sexual orientations. If you're afraid to broach the subject with your partner, you're not alone: many people don't find the courage to experiment with anal play until well into their sexual lives. However, you might consider taking a deep breath and blurting out your interest in anal play. Who knows? Your partner may have been secretly longing to tell you of his or her own interest! At the worst, you may feel some embarrassment. At best, you'll discover a new experience that will stimulate you and maybe even enrich your sex life. You may also find that you just don't care for anal sex. That's fine too. Anal sex isn't for everyone! At MyPleasure, we are firm believers in trying everything once. So try it and see if you like it. If not, you don't ever have to do it again. But if you do find that you like anal play, consider adding some anal dildos (also called butt plugs), beads or vibrating anal toys to your pleasure chest. Toys can add a distinctive touch to your anal pleasures!

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Answer 2

NO -- BUT -- Remember HIV, Aids, Herpes, and all other Sexually transmitted Diseases? Use condoms, no pertroleum based lubricants because they melt rubbers.

Rubbers may break, ONLY use water based lubricants, like KY, etc... Ask, any Pharmacist, Doctor about lubricants. You can used the same lubricants you use for Vaginal intercorse, however, be aware of chemicals in lubricants, they may cause allergic reactions as may be the cause with Rubbers/Latex etc.

Ask your Doctor. Email me if you need more info. I'll ask for you. Also, anal intercorse can cause damage to tissue, muscle strength, and can cause serious damage if not properly approached. YOU MUST be very comfortable, gentle, lubricated, and take it from me -- it can be absolutely the most wonderful thing if you and your partner study this issue. Otherwise you will become frustrated, damaged, injured and so many other things. Good question. First - AIDS, HIV, STD's -- Second - How to do it properly and without damage which starts with Three - Relaxation techniques used to relax the anal muscle prior to penetration and a finger is not it, start with tonque or knuckle etc, fingers are fine outside and slightly inserted but can lead to scratches, tears, plus there is a reaction to tighten up muscle if inserted due to natural reaction. I hope this help, I have never explained this over the internet before. There are so many things involved in today's sexual explorations that professional opinions are really great. If you can't ask, then I will ask for you. OH, One more thing --- If you do not use condoms --- Some people are allergic to semen and also remember Hepatitis B and others. Go to DR to be examined and if you need to be referred to a DR. who will talk to you about this let me know.

Answer 3

Hello!! :o) The anus was designed to do just ONE thing. To excrete 'waste'. It was not designed to have foreign objects [and to the anus - a penis IS a 'foreign object'] shoved into it. It stands to reason - therefore - that [at least eventually] there will be consequences to pay [physically] for being on the receiving end of anal sex. Add to that the risks insofar as sexually transmitted diseases are concerned - and MY anus is a 'no-go-zone'!! [Well... at least when it comes to sex!!] Have a great day!! Craig!! :o)

Answer 4

Anal play can be safe, but you have to be careful. If you play rough, then seepage can occur, where you discharge some fluids when you don't want to. Your sphincter muscle can lose its function. But if you play nice, and not too often, you should be ok.

Answer 5

dont listen to the last dude. Yes you can loose control of your bowels if you continue to do it and do it roughly. Imagine wearing a diaper at 30 y/o. Also AIDS

Answer 6

Aids

Answer 7

a dirty wacker ?