as i said she usually makes the appointments because i used to tell her everythin before but wen i first had sex i realized i realli culdnt tell her so how do i go about doin this because makin the appointment alone or goin alone will look suspicious and i think shees suspicious alreadi...plz help =/ no dumb answers thank u...
2006-10-25 12:19:55 · 10 answers · asked by dEE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you could go to planned parenthood....but the best thing to do would be to be honest with your mom...she may be disappointed but you know she has to realize that it was gonna happen sooner or later.....I have 2 girls and I would hope that they would come to me with things like this...please talk to your mom.
2006-10-25 12:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest planned parenthood in your area. They can give you a well-woman exam and also you can get your pills right there. They pills are much less expensive from them because they use a sliding fee schedule, so someone like you might even get them free since you might be too young to have a job. You will get the care you need from helpful friendly women who will answer all of your questions. Please don't wait. I had the same problem when I was a teen and ended up pregnant and that is horrible to deal with. If you can't talk to mom, talk to the nurse at planned parenthood.
2006-10-25 13:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just confide in her. If you were able to talk to her before, I bet nothing has changed. She will appreciate the fact that you trust her enough to help you rather than find out about it from someone else. Parents nowadays are not quite so naive as to think that their child won't experiment with sex a bit earlier than before. And which is better, to be safe or sorry? You don't have to tell her that you are not a virgin, but tell her you've been thinking about it for a while now and you would like her to go with you and discuss birth control and condoms.
2006-10-25 12:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to a local district health center and they will do it wil out your mom knowing. Also, a planned parenthood will work as well. I think that just you wanting to get on Birth Control is a great thing. The only problem will be if you mom finds the pills.
2006-10-25 13:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her. It might be akward, but she'll know why you need birth control and will probably be more inclined to make the appointment for you. If you don't want to talk to her, tell her you want to go to the doctor alone because you'll feel more comfortable talking to the doctor without her around. You're getting older and it's time for you to do some things by yourself.
2006-10-25 12:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by writer_law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she takes you u can tell her before the doctor calls you to come in that you would rather for her to stay in the waiting room while you go see the doctor. you could also tell her that u feel that you r old enough to be seen by a doctor alone.
Although you are going in for birth control please be sure you still use a condom when having sexual intercourse. U r still too young to even be having sex. but make sure u tell your mother how you feel about her being in the waiting room. ~GOOD LUCK~
2006-10-25 12:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schedule a pap smear, and ask for some privacy with the doctor in the room.. The doc can't tell your mom anything. I use to feel the sameway when I was a teenager, and my mom did suspect I was having sex, even swore she was going to take me to the doctor to find out... Doc can't tell her shi*
2006-10-25 12:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if there's a women's clinic in your area. If there is, you can probably get the pills there. Maybe you should tell your mother that you are sexually active but are on the pill so you can't get pregnant. Then she wouldn't have to worry about that. I don't know how old you are, however.
2006-10-25 12:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not do any good, but you do need to at least try to work through your mom.... Maybe even touch on the subject while with the doctor and see what develops....
2006-10-25 12:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a planned parenthood, or you could just tell her that you think that you are old enough to go back by yourself and make it seem that you think that she goes back with you because you might be nervous to see the doctor
2006-10-25 18:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by km 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋