My wife is great but....?

Question

My wife is great but.... She knows how to "take care of me" below the waist but there is room for improvement. I bought a video on how to improve her technique, how should I introuce this video to her???

Answer 1

First off honesty is the best policy, and when you approach a subject like this its all in they way you present it too her, If you walked into the room, and tossed the video to her, and told her "Hey you need to watch this, because your not hitting all the right spots on me" I guarantee you, that you will be sleeping on the couch, try a different approach, "hey babe I want to talk to you, guess what? well I heard about this tape that teaches technics on how to improve our love making, and well guess what I bought a copy, will you watch it with me? there's several volumes, and this one is on ***** if it's good we can try other ones"
Actually what you should of done was, you should of bought the how to please your women one, and tell her, you want to learn how to please her, on a whole other level, then in a few days, after that she wont be so, apposed to the women pleasing the man one, as a kid we played some fore square game, and we would say " fair server fair return"

Answer 2

sit your wife down and put in the video let her watch it and then ask her what she thinks but don't be surprised if she also feels that you need to improve in your techniques below the belt

Answer 3

Go to a porn shop, buy a porn video of what you want her to do, she will learn from that, tell her you find it erotic watching something like that while you are making love to her, or whatever you two are doing as consenting adults, I'm not going there lol. You could rent a video, but most places charge big bucks just to have it leave the store lol.

Answer 4

hmm...i can say i haven't had any complaints in that area...and even have thought about buying the tape for myself just to see if i could learn something new..this is a touchy subject you don't want to offend her or your never gonna get "that" again...lol...i wouldn't just give her that one maybe you should throw in a regular porn, toy, or flavored something and say that the below the belt video was a gift..adam and eve always gives extra gifts with their orders..so it wouldn't look like you were thinking she needed improvement...good luck...hope my advice helps

Answer 5

Don't let on like it's for her. Tell her you bought it to spice up sex and to get ideas. Maybe you should throw in a couple of other "good" videos so it won't look so suspicious.

Answer 6

watch together and give one another encouragements towards improvements. you might even find something good for yourself along the line. don't only focus on her. take it positively and openly. all of us as the matter of fact has got room for improvements not only your wife.

Answer 7

Play the movie and both of you guys watch it /..Tell her Hey I want it done like this... Communication is the key your married you should know this by now bRO.

Answer 8

Tell her that you'd like to ask her to do it a certain way for you, if she agrees then you can tell her you've heard this video is helpful.

Answer 9

I agree with the first person's comment. One of you will be sleeping on the couch.

Answer 10

just tell her: honey look what i found, do u wanna watch it?? if she will watch then everything is easy , just next time when the time comes ask her if she doesnt wanna try to do it the new way.... she shouldnt get mad or anything....