He hasnt returned calls, ignored for 2days, braught me all the way home to Tenn. from Fl, and back just to show me that hes with another girl ... Not sure what the deal is, What would be the best way to deal with this?!!!???
2006-10-25 12:13:35 · 19 answers · asked by violettelillyrose81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him
2006-10-25 12:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by debralizjr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say just let him know that he can never have you back, and calmly walk away. Don't try and make contact, don't play his game. I think the most hurtful thing someone can do to a cheater is to not buy into their game. If he wanted to show you that he was cheating, he obviously still has some hangups with you and feelings for you, otherwise he wouldn't take the time to go through the trouble; he'd just dump you altogether and move on.
The best advice I can give is, be the bigger person. Show him you're above all the bullshit games he's trying to play with you and move on with your life. It usually drives people nuts when they don't get the last word; by completely shutting him out of your life, you get the last word. Don't play games, show him by your actions that you are above him and move on with your life. He doesn't deserve the time or effort. You are too good for that - further contact can only hurt you more. Good luck; I hope you heed my advice.
2006-10-25 19:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, I know a story.....James Woods, movie actor, was living with Sean Young, pretty actress. She found out he was cheating on her. ...this part is sort of scummy, but still funny. She had hot hard sex with him, tired him out really good. He fell asleep. And she superglued his "best attribute" to his inner thigh and left. Ok, I don't really condone doing this. Don't. But you gotta admit, she had a really good way of teaching him a lesson. He called 911, and when the police came, they couldn't stop laughing.
Best revenge really? Let the gods have him. They usually do the best revenge on people who deserve it. I know that sounds a little lame, but it does happen. And when it does, it usually is fantastic revenge! Is that you in the pic hon? Don't worry about some loser. You are beautiful. And you don't need this jerk in your life. Walk away and laugh. Then smile because you are free of this moron. Don't look back.
2006-10-25 19:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by the witch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to start with if the picture you use is really you what you have is a stupid boyfriend.
Regardless of that you need to say goodbye.
If he goes to that much trouble to run it in your face you can better believe he cares little for you. Dump him now and find someone who will take you on a cruise. Maybe the Love Boat.
2006-10-25 19:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl and find someone better and be happy. Happiness is the best revenge. And if he ever calls or contacts you tell him youve moved on a found someone better and hang up the phone!
2006-10-25 19:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by the librarian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, ask him y he is doing this, but if u want to get himm ack for what he did, then u have to ignore him, make it look like he is just another guy and u dont care what happens to him. cheat on him, have oral sex with another guy in front of him. that should show him, u could not do the oral thing though if ur not like a slut.
2006-10-25 19:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Post bad pictures && his phone numbers to guys && tell them he's interested. Or plant drugs in his house && get him arrested. Or post his pictures all around his neighborhood && tell the whole story && post CHEATER all over the flyers. Someone actually did this one before. <3
2006-10-25 19:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by girlonfire *White Sox Pride* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, aren't guns legal there? Don't even go there. Just be the lady that you obviously are, and ignore the whole thing. He seems to want you to take notice, so why would you give it to him?
2006-10-25 19:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get over a guy is to get under a new one.
2006-10-25 19:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by dnaflow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just forget about him and if one day he wants u back say yes and make him fly to were u live then be like oh i was kidding i have a bf
2006-10-25 19:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by shiningstar_31283 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i saw this in a movie once, it was awsome!!! the chick talked her hubbys stupid gf into having sex with her, the guy looked soooooo stupid when he found out. i'm not gay but i could totally see my self getting someone else to do it to her for me. i hate cheaters.
2006-10-25 19:24:08 · answer #11 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋