You have been dating this guy for a while, and then you guys break up. For months the two of you have always been nice in the emails, and ended your emails with sweet little nothings or just your first name. Now that you have broken up you send him an email, but this time even though he was still nice in the email he ended it with writing his full name and then typed "signing off" as though he was being professional. I sent him a normal everyday kind of email. Are we professional now?
And no I was not expecting the sweet little nothings, but just a 1st name like we use to do. That's what I did. He said lets be friends, and this has been the only time I contacted him since the break up, and the email was sharing something good with me. It was a 1-liner and it did not discuss us at all in any way. If he did it to tell me to back off why did he even answer because there were two before this about us that he did not answer on the day of the break up.
2006-10-25 12:09:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about taking a hint, and don't write to him anymore. Ever think that he doesn't want to hear from you. There is a reason one "break-ups" with each other, and it isn't because it's Love...
So get on with your life, it's stupid to even think about it.
2006-10-25 12:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...From what you have posted it sounds confusing, hard to understand. However, if he has told you to back off and ended the relationship or whatever you guys had going on there's nothing to really try to figure out. It sounds like you're having a difficult time dealing with the break-up. You can't force anything, if it doesn't fit don't force it.
Move on...
2006-10-25 12:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says let's be friends. But...what he really wants is to make the past just fade away fast. It didn't work out for him the way he expected it to. And he thinks if he is extra proper, you will just go away. Don't waste too much time on this one. He has enough friends without you being one of them dear. And you don't need the drama of this clown not being able to say what he really wants to say.
2006-10-25 12:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's drawing a line in the sand and trying to put distance between you both. It is very childish. He may even have begun seeing someone else and wants to sign the e-mails formally to prove that he isn't encouraging a "friendship" with his ex.
Don't write the pr*ck
2006-10-25 12:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey 59, it's over girl. now don't go stalking the man. be dignified and move forward. don't turn into a sad little victim, go out and find another friend. this guy is trying to disengage so just let go gracefully. good luck
2006-10-25 12:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let him go. He doesn't even want to be friends anymore. That's deep. Why not call instead of being afraid,you should take the first step in trying to communicate other than emailing him. If he is trippin let go & let God.
2006-10-25 12:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by cutiestorm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yet another case of over psychoanalyzing something trivial. Maybe he has a new girlfriend and doesn't want to send mixed messages to be used against him later.
2006-10-25 12:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not going to be the same emailing you if he broke up with you 4 mos ago, so why expect anything.
2006-10-25 12:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is now an ex, isn't he? He has given you a subtle 'push away' because it's over, even if you and he will remain friends. Don't over analyse it.
2006-10-25 12:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he would like to remain friendly and be cordial, but doesn't wanted to make you feel there is something more there than there really is. He's moving on.
2006-10-25 12:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋