My cousin's wife left my cousin recently. She said he was "fat & had no personality" as far as I was told. My mom doesn't want me 2 get involved in this as much as I want to. My cousin emailed me saying that his wife left him...& that's all that was in there...just 4 words...I don't know if I should email him back...& If I should, I don't know wht to say to him...plz tell me wht I shud say that would console him.....my mom told me not to email him since he's upset already & I shouldn't bug him and make him more upset. What should I do? How can I make my cousin feel better? He had been with his wife for 6 years & I thought she was pretty nice...but all of a sudden, this happened. Plz help me out !
2006-10-25 12:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's another thing...I used to email his wife...we actually got along...I thought she was a great person...do u think he may have sent that email as a "msg" to not email her anymore?
2006-10-27 12:40:12 · update #1
just listen to your heart.
2006-10-25 12:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by Faith_marie_16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think he emailed this to you for a reason. I dont think he would have done so if he didnt welcome a response from you. Normally you mom would be right but not in this case because he contacted you first. I would email him as if your mom hadnt already told you and let him tell you everything for himself because Im sure he has things to say about it that your mom wouldnt even know anything about. Good luck!
2006-10-25 19:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you have a soft spot for your cousin. You should communicate with him, at the times of problems and troubles family must stand by the person. Who else will say to him that they care, how he is feeling, how he is coping with things.
YOU MUST TALK/EMAIL TO HIM
This is most human and relative way to act.
2006-10-25 19:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Syed M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely email him back. Tell him that you will be there for him if he needs you. You are a grown-up now and you should follow your heart instead of your mother.
2006-10-25 22:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Hualan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're sorry for what happened and let him know you are there for him. Don't state any opinions or give any advice what so ever.
2006-10-25 19:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should email him with sumthing nice to say like im sorry but hey its her loss personally i think you are very slinder and u have a great personality or sumthin like that!
2006-10-25 19:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥I LOVE SHOPPING FO SHO♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obey your mother.
While you are doing that, talk to her and see if she will change her mind.
Obeying your mother in this situation is not optional,even if a whole bunch of folks think differently.
2006-10-25 19:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u could say u r really sorry and feel bad 4 him and ask if theres anything u can do
2006-10-25 19:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by jEsSiCa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would e-mail my cousin back.... simple as his statement. I would type "sorry". Leave it at that for now. Let him know you care anyways.
2006-10-25 19:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by flower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it
2006-10-25 19:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋