I've had this feeling my relationship with my ex was not really "over" and had honestly felt at some point in the future we would connect again. However in the past few days I've since found out her previous love (the person she left me for) and her are going to get married next year. A lot can happen between now and then. I don't doubt they are attracted to one another still, but the things I know about the guy and what she told me and why she left him, I still can't believe they will make it work. I will of course do the honorable thing and not interfere, but is it finally time for me to let go of the person I loved? Or as someone said, hope springs eternal, never give up. I can certainly put off any new relationships until they are married. Is it worth even holding on anymore? The reason I feel this is at some point she is going to re-experience and remember the hurt and pain from that relationship. Then again maybe it wasn't that bad between them. Cest la vie.
2006-10-25 12:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by Kruton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you all for the kind replies. I generally love this girl and would have married her had she given me the chance. It does sound like she's confused and not honest with her emotions, but she had enough good qualities that I fell in love with her. I do wish her the best, and sadly her future doesn't appear to be with me. But I'm a forgiving person and whatever she has done, has not turned me against her or made me reject her. I don't know woman and at all. One minute she's telling me she wants to marry me, the next that we we are not compatible. I don't to regret never giving her a chance and being there for her. But as it appears to you all, she made her decision and it's obvious I should move on. Easier said than done when you truly loved this person.
2006-10-25 12:19:23 · update #1
Let it go. You will only hurt yourself in the end. If she is making a mistake then let her find out the hard way. She left you for this guy whom she left once before for whatever reason. If it didn't work the first time it probably won't this time. But you don't want someone who plays games with your feelings like that. She seems confused and unpredictable. She will eventually see the error of her ways but it will be too late. You will have the girl of your dreams and when she comes running back you will be so happy you'll wonder what the hell you were thinking missing her like you did. Don't hold your life up waiting for someone who clearly made a bad choice. Her lose and some other lucky girls gain. You know it won't last for her and the guy, but I wouldn't wait around to except her back with open arms when it falls apart. Good luck!
2006-10-25 12:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 23:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to let go. She is the one who left you and it is hard but think about it......would she have waited for you? Try new things and let her live and learn from her mistakes. If it doesn't work, then when she is ready maybe you will still be available. If not, then you found someone worth your time and she is out of luck. Atleast somethhing good came out of it! Good Luck
2006-10-25 12:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to give up hope.Why should you put your life on hold when clearly for some reason she can't get enough of this other person no matter what they have done.If she revisits the hurt and pain it is hers to deal with ,not yours. Let go and get on with your life. I know it isn't easy and will be painful. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-25 12:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by LIly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go man time to move on. I'm sure you will find that person that is right for you. Stop wasting your time on what was and start thinking about what could be with someone new. In the mean time use booze and hookers to numb the pain.. j/k on the last comment.
2006-10-25 12:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by goingfasterbmw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to let go, pal. You should not be talking to anyone about her and finding out all kinds of things like you just wrote. She is not giving you a second thought.......get over it!!! You are making a fool out of yourself and wasting your life......but this is the path that you are choosing. Nothing anyone says here is going to make you do anything that you do not want to do. Again, you are wasting your life.
2006-10-25 12:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby an ex is an Ex for a reason and just remember that and hold on tight. LIFE has someone for you.
2006-10-25 12:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look maybe u just wanna hold on to farmiliar things. and yes u should let go cause shes moved on and if she comes back then let it happen. just go with the flow.
2006-10-25 12:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up on love. When you see her when she is alone run up to her and kiss her. After the kiss you leave and leave her shocked, blushing, and happy from seeing u again.
2006-10-25 12:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋